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Well in ever day living that should inclued sex as well,its part of life,so have yous ever spent time apart,if you have what is it like when one of you returns,is it like I missed you an you end up in the bedroom.She knows you wont leave her,maybe a little time apart would help,thinking about it would only drive you nuts.Take a step back an look at the big picture fom her point of veiw.I dont know what else to surgest,what would you do if you were her with this problem? good luck

HI I read your reply an yes you are not silly and you do have a problem you love your partner with all your heart an would love to show her your love an affection you have for her in the bedroom. Routine,shift work has alot to do with it is possible,low sex drive to high sex drive that wont work either cause someone will always be disappointed.[an we know who that is,damn] It seems to me your parnter has lost her PASSION,FIRE, ZING,SPARK we need to find that again,im shore the passion was there in the beginning,what was it about you that turned her on to the point were she couldnt keep her hands of you. We are going to RIP this problem apart turn it upside down an inside out until we find an answer or end up BALD from ripping our hair out All the best OXOX

Hi I have read this whole thread an can see that you are totally devoted to her an LOVE her very much.You said that it was love at first sight,what was it that attracted her to youan you to her.Was it love at first sight for her to, how long did you date eachother, Im not being nosey here but sometimes its good to look back on the journey about our lives an how we got to this point in our lives.She is 50 an going through the change, you are 43 im not sure whether you said you have been though it or not,if you have then you know how it feels if not then you have to go through it at some stage in your life.I would truly love to hear about your life from start to now,vent get angry who knows this might help you. hang in there