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Shortpants last won the day on April 7 2010

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  1. I have always been told, "You don't sh*t where you eat" and I agree. As other posters have said, soem companies have policies about dating in the workplace, others don't but it is generally frowned upon because what happens when the relationship goes sour? You are stuck working with someone you'd rather not see on a daily basis, if ever. Nope, not a good idea. Never have heard of this ending well.
  2. I have to agree with Ash on this one. YOU are the most important thing in your life, and that is that. My ex had me constantly second-guessing myself, every time I thought I had it straight in my head as to what I wanted, one conversation with him and I'd be a pool of spineless goo on the floor, bowing to whatever he said was the "right" thing to do. It was only after months of NC that I was able to see straight and give myself the validation that what I was thinking and feeling was not wrong in any way, shape or form. It is very hard, but you really need to focus on yourself and not live the what-ifs, shoulda / coulda / woulda, wonder if he's feeling as bad as me life. The day you wake up and know that you will be ok and you can be happy will be the best day of your life! I greet every day with a smile now and am saddened only by the fact I wasted 10 years trying to save something I really should have let go. You can do it! Not to mention you will be better for it in the end.... we promise!!
  3. Personally in this day and age, I don't find it strange at all for a female to go to a male.... but I'm biased a bit. I met my SO online almost two years ago now, and discovered he was 1500 miles away. /cry He was hesitant to travel to me first due to an experience a friend of his had traveling a couple states away to meet a girl and being turned away at the door and spending the night in a Super 8 in a strange town. Well, I ended up throwing caution to the wind and traveling to him... and the rest is history. He moved to my state in December and I couldn't be more thrilled with the wonderful, amazing man in my life. As long as you are safe with your planning to meet him, such as public place first, having a friend there is handy, and make sure as many people as possible know where you are, I see nothing wrong with taking the initiative. Good luck and best wishes!
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