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Thanks for the posts, guys and girls! I'm liking the enery of these posts, there talking about a somewhat depressing situation for some of us, but there not depressing.... Keep em' coming and I'll keep reading... Thanks agian!

Hey, I know exactly how you feel. Reread your post as if it was coming from me, becuase I feel the very very very same way. I am 20 years old and never have had a girlfriend, and I believe I am very attractive, but it's not what I believe, it is what others believe right? now, I do agree with you this world is cold... selfish... and unfair - but DO NOT commit suicide for any reason.... do you hear me??? When it is your time to go you will go, do not take it upon yourself to be your own God. I have thought about suicide myself a few times, because I also can not handle the pain anymore of not being able to love, cherish, and care for the girl that I need. But those are thoughts, and that's where they stay... You will get threw this, all you need is faith, I know you don't see it now, neither do I for myself, but it will all turn around with time, how much time, nobody knows, but it will! What you can do in the mean time is talk to every girl that interests you, I Don't Care were you are, what your doing, if you see someone who interest you, you must talk to them, ok... you can start by just walking around and saying Hi to them, if you can't mustard up the courage to go farther, that's the stage I'm at right now. Ask these girls out, ok.... ask them for there phone numbers, the general rule of thumb with girls is that you will receive 10 nos for every yes, it suck but that is the way it is. When you feel ready go out and ask atleast 10 girls out, get use to Nos, it's not just you, it's me, and every guy on this planet, we all will get nos, no matter what... it's life... but I guarantee you will get a yes, you just got to keep plugin, don't think of it as rejection but as one step closer to your YES! What do you have to loose, give it a shot. And I want to make sure you really understand you are NOT THE ONLY person who feels the way you do, I feel the same way and I know the are others also... infact we feel so much the same that I couldn't tell if this was a post I did and forgot about or was to drunk to remember... Good luck bud, if you need anything email me email removed

I'm trying to do a study, for my own sake, to see how old the majority of people were when they started dating, and how it happened. I figure by asking this, it will help me determine what I have done wrong, and need to change, so I will no longer have to be the 20 year old college kid who everybody says is cute but no one will date... I ask you this members and readers: How old were you when you started (seriously) dating? And how did it happen? Thanks in advance, and I look forward to everyones response

Hey C-cups are a perfect size. Like others on this post have said your boyfriend seems to have a fetish for huge breasts. What you should do is tell your boyfriend that you are happy with your breasts and what your God gave you and you won't change them. If he is not satisfied by what you have to offer than the relationship can't go any further, make sure to instill in his brain the fact that people should not have to change there physical appearance for someone else, you should be happy for who you are and what you got. I know this maybe hard to do expecially since you love him so much, but you must confront him again about this.... and agian a C-cup is perfect you can't get any better than that, and if he isn't happy with them I know a million guys who would be (including myself hehehehe) Best luck to ya!

She probably is just a little scared because she doesn't want a repeat of what happened with the other guy you said she dated, just give her time, ask her out to an event here in the next few days, if she says yes, go on it have a good time, and act like it's "no big deal" this will make her feel more comftable, trust me.... The key thing to learn about girls and dating is that YOU have to persue them and ask them out, but then leave it to THEM to decide how fast the relationship will progress

Thanks guys for posting. I really appreciate it, your words have actually motivated me to try again in this game of dating. It's good to get advice from a womens point of view, and it is also nice to know I'm not the only one that's been here. Thanks again!

Hey all, I haven't posted in awhile, been doing pretty good until recently. I finally thought I found somebody that was my equal and unfortunately, like every other girl that I've liked, it fell through. See I met her in a class I had and since the first time I saw her I thougt she was amazing. I talked to her, got close, and started getting her to meet me at the student center at our college to work out with me 3 days a week. One time in particular I thought I heard her mention she was hungry, maybe edging me to ask her out to eat, but she said it so softly I wasn't sure and didn't have her repeat (MORON!) well I finally built up the courage to ask her out and when i did, even though I knew she liked my with no doubts, she said MAYBE! That kinda twerked at me for awhile and then I found out that another focker or excuse me. . . guy, asked her out the day before me. Since then she hasn't been to the student center much and I haven't been able to contact her. I'm tired of everyone I ever develop an attraction for or close connection with getting away from me. I know there is probably not much one can say on this subject but please say something, I need someone to hear me out. I'm just so P#$5ed off right now cause she was perfect for me in every way emotionally, mentally, etc. and I am tired of looking. . . tired of being the "nice guy" whoevery girl "wants" to date but DON't . . . thank you for your time....

Here are a couple things that I, myself, as a guy see as being ways a girl shows that she likes you. Different things you could do include: -Saying thing to him such as "you're so cute!" or calling him "honey" or "baby" -Holding his hand, putting your arm around his shoulders. -Acting sexy (innocent) -Gazing into his eyes occasionally -OR STRAIGHT OUT TELLING HIM "Your Awesome! and I Like You!" ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hope I helped, if you have any more questions just post and I'll reply if I can!

Hey, I know this might be hard and it will take a lot of courage and bravery, but if all you can think about when you wake up in the morning is "dre", and all you can think about before going to bed is "dre". Then you are "in-love" with "dre". Now I know you said you have another boyfriend. Let me ask you this, do you feel more comftable and have a more intouch feeling with him more than with "dre"??? If the answer is no, then do not stay with him when you know what you really want is "dre"... I assume you are younger as I am. Don't worry about breaking anyones heart or hurting anyones feelings. We are still young and we haven't truley figured out what is is that we want, ok! YOU MUST DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU!!! Tell your boyfriend that you like him as a friend and would love for him to stay your friend but you have found someone else that you feel more intune with, and if he is a true friend he will accept that. Don't make the wrong decision . . . I was in a sitiuation like this once before and it didn't turn out the way I wanted because I waited too long to act . . . If you ever need anything else from me please don't hesitate to ask. . . email removed .....................................................I HOPE THIS HELPS................................................

Hey peeps! I know this may seem like a stupid post. . . but I have a real quick and painless question I would like to get some advice on. You guys have helped tremendously with my other posts and I am just asking you to do it one more time if you will, OK here it is: I am a senior in high school getting ready to graduate here in about 3 months. There is a girl in my English class who sits right next to me and I have been attracted to her ALL year and just recently I have been getting signs that she likes me, when her legs are crossed her foot is pointing directly at me, she looks at me frequently, talks to me whenever she can, offers to take my books, homework, etc. up to the teachers desk. Ok, you're probably asking "heck man, whats your problem, go get her!" but there is one other slight problem. SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!!! HE'S A GEEK!!! and she has been dating him for over 2 years, and at first she talked about him constintly. Once my friend told me that the reason girls go for these geeky, sometimes jerk like figures is because they are the only ones with big enough "Gahoonas" to talk to them, if you know what I mean??? Ok, so lay it out for me fellas. What's the deal . . . should I go for it and if so how... also I forgot to mention we are both going to Ohio University after we graduate for HS, what a coincidence!!! THANXS in advance!

Hey thanks a lot guy! You know whats funny, I have posted numerous replys to people answering questions that aren't to far from mine, but when it comes to helping myself it seems like I can't take my own advise. . . a little ironic isn't it!? I feel I don't know what to do.... lol Well I will try to be more observant to the way this girl acts around me and hopefully it will work for the better. Hey one more question if you dont mind??? What would you suggest I do if the girl I am interested in has a boyfriend that she has been dating for lets say maybe a year or so . . . I feel that is my biggest problem, I am scared to approach her with my so called "game" when she has a man.... THANXS!

Hey buddy, I am in the SAME EXACT situation. I fell-in-love with my best girl friend who I have known since I was 4 years old (I am now 18). About 2 years ago I started feeling these strong feelings for her which i could not avoid. I went on this site to get some help and guidance and eventually gained enough courage to tell her how I felt. Ofcourse she was involved on another relationship at the time and still is. The response I got from her is she loved me as a friend and if it wasn't for me she didn't know what she would do. But she also said she didn't think she deserved a guy like me. now I don't know if that is just a girls way of saying NO, without hurting a guys feelings or if she really meant it. I am still confused on that. But as much as I hate to say you have to try to move on. Find other girls that you like, take them on dates, get to know them. Maybe eventually your best friend will come around. I am still hoping that for myself. And to be honest - you will still think about her, and sometimes you will cry over her, and sometimes when your out with other girls you will wish that was her by yourside. I know I did. Try to move on, but also leave that back door open just incase. (unless you get over it) I'm trying. If you need anything else bud, just let me know. I need somebody to talk about this with too!!! HOPE I HELPED!

Hey, I know what you are going through. I have been there and done that! To be honest, you need to tell her your feelings. Let her know exactly what you told us here in your post. To me it sounds like she really trusts you and loves to hang around you. If you let her know how your feeling it can only bring your relationship closer, and even if she doesn't agree right away maybe later down the road she will see that she made the wrong decision and come back into your life for good. You have to start somewhere man, life is to short for bull sh*t! Let her know what you feel. But also let her know that if SHE DOESN'T FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU UNDERSTAND AND THAT YOU STILL WANT TO BE GOOD FRIENDS. ALSO MENTION YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR HER. (if thats true)! Hope I helped bud!

Those are pretty sure cut signs that the girl is interested in you. I mean, the gazind into your eyes when you two are talking, and the whole thing about her giving you a hug when she was scared. That means that she felt safe with you. THATS A GOOD THING!!! I think you should ask her on a date, but you want to take it slow. Don't go to fast. Next time you see her in class ask her if she wants to go see a movie or go bowling with you. If you have her number you can even do it that way. But to answer your question, YES IT IS TIME TO ASK HER!!! Hope I helped

My friend once told me this qoute that said, "Nice Guys Always Finish Last." When he told me that, I looked at him confused and said "what are you talking about? Nice guys can't finish last because thats what the girls want!" But over the last couple years I have realized that the qoute seems to be more true than I wanted it to be. Can someone please expain to me why it seems like the nice caring guys always finish last or get left out of relationships??? THANX