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Met her last night. I was terrified it was for the last time. We've been on the long goodbye on off thing for a while. She said she wanted to give it one last try. I am so happy. We had a few drinks, made plans for the weekend and went back to her place. No sex just cuddles. It woke up with her in my arms this morning. It was wonderful. I have lots of other chalenges at the moment but now I can deal with them.........

She loves me. I love her. She has been off sex for a while. I pushed and thought I got away with it. I felt sex would bring us closer together. I was wrong. Now she wonders why she no longer wants sex as much and is breaking up. I know I have put her off it by pushing it. I know she thinks the spark is gone. I feel (hope) I can convince her to give our relationship one last try. Problem is, if she does, how should I behave. Should I forget sex completely foe a while or do something to bring back the spark. I'll do anything. I just don't know what to do. Honest answers please. Believe me you won't hurt me. I've got to get this right, I love the girl.

Man, write a book. You wrote the script I've been playing and the one I must follow. It's tough out there if you're not tough inside.

We were sitting talking to each other, holding hands and having a laugh, getting on great. She said she felt we had a great chance. I said I didn't really know where I stod but it felt like we were back. Then she said we weren't back. We ended up in her house. I got a creepy feeling about the whole thing and said I was going home. I ended it and asked her to leave me alone for a while so I could get over the whole thing. She sent me a text the next day and wanted to meet. We did. I said I couldn't handle it any more. It got too complicated and confusing. She said she didn't want to loose me and asked was I just playing mind games. I told her I wasn't. I wasn't. We spoke for a while. I arranged for us to meet again (this evening) so I could give her some of her cloths from my house. I want to be Mr. Tough guy in the hope that given time all will be ok. I'm afraid that this won't pay off and she'll end up with someone else and I'll have to kill him (joke) but jokes aside I am seriously confused. I know I won't do better and if I could do better I wouldn't want better. Do I sound like a weirdo? I seriously amn't

Everyone understands text english, the person who sent the last post needs to learn a bit about humanity. Can't help you with your ex, know what you're going through, good luck. Don't be too easy, don't play too many mind games.

ok, I'm 35 year old guy, she 31. Going out one year. Had a couple of short breaks in the past. Love each other. Big trouble the past month. She ended it. We met. We both wanted back. Then it came out in conversation that we weren't back even though were seeing each other. I got a creepy feeling and ended it. She was devestated and wanted to give it another go. I've been ok the past few days as I will see her this evening to give her some cloths she had at my house (weren't living together but were considering it) and a present for her upcoming birthday. I have told her not to contact me for a long time after this evening as I need time to get over her. I absolutely live her, she loves me. We are both devestated. I am throwing away the most wonderful person I ever met. Why is this happenning. Is there an alternative. For my age I haven't gone out with many girld. I have been in love once before in my late teens but not like this.... Help