forgiveand4get

ok so um ur 16.... my philosophy, don't have sex unless u can handle the responsibilities that could come with it (sorry if any of this comes out funny I'm actually on my phone). I started having sex at that age and every month I wondered if this was gunna b the month I finally screwed up. once I got out of that I felt so much better. maybe that's just me. but yall r just babies still. you shouldn't risk having babies of your own yet. pleople tell me I'm too young for sex and I'm legally an adult I don't know like I said this is just my opinion. as far as the pill ges. how did she get it if shes only 15. I've gotten carded all 3 times (i shouldn't have even bothered woth it once) but I thought u had to be 18

so hes decided that he is going...... =/

weve tried to and he says that the trip isnt about drinking its about having his first pledge and yada yada (i hate fraternities... no offense to anyone) but he says that if he can drink here if he wants (um hes not 21 and he wouldnt do it around ,e becasue of how much i hate it) ive tried to explain to him that my dad had problems with it and beat my mom up pretty bad when i was younger but he tells me thats my dad... not him and hed never lay a finger on me (which i know he wouldnt) im just paranoid about that. i think i have a pretty good reason to not like drinking.

yup. we go to dinner with her like once a week. shes against him going too but shes not as vocal about it as I am.

ok well im not sure this is where this should go or not but im gunna just take a guess and say so. anyways, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months and things have moved pretty fast (were already talking about getting a place together next semester). I love my boy friend to death and I dont want to control his life. He deserves to be happyand have fun. neither of us have the best homel ife right now. but next weekend hes planing on going back to his old college for initiation week to torture the pledges and I really dont want him to go. he had a rough past and did drugs and drank (still drinks but hes been in ASAP so he hasnt at all since halloween). I am very opposed to the idea of drinking and last time he went to college he got drunk before he even left the state and ended up giving in and doing drugs for the first time in over a year. i asked him not to go and he told me that hes planing on still going. well last night i asked him again to please not go and we got into a fight about it and now hes not going. Why do I feel so horrible now. It's what I want right? i tried to explain to him that it hurts my feelings that hes only going for the fraternity and to drink and it makes me kinda feel like i come behind them but hes assured me that im # 1 (other than his mother which is totally understandable). he tells me that im dragging this on and on and he cant go knowing that i might want to end the relationship when he gets back (i dont want to but it really hurts thinking about the fact he could screw up again or get in trouble and then im just stuck here being angry at him) i guess over all i just want him to be happy but i dont my feeling to get hurt (also ive been really stressed lately becuase we thought i was pregnant up until yesterday and now we're not sure and I'm really emotional about the whole situation) so yeah.... if anyone actually understands thus jumbled mess please help.....](*,)

in my opinion its a pretty safe bet that ur ok. don't worry.