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  1. So i spoke to this guy i met online...he seems like a nice guy but....he was awkward and finally said "i dont have any topics to talk about"... Like who says that? its just so frustrating when you put 0 effort into talking about yourself in an interesting way or asking questions about the other person. I've come across many men like this.
  2. no, but we started off as friends and decided to work on this together.
  3. we work on a business project together. Contact is primarily online, calls.
  4. I really need some advice about a close friend of mine. We've been talking everyday for almost 2 years now. We are very close and usually well connected. Recently I was going through something during the covid phase and ended up ranting too much about my issues (I lost my job and was isolated). He never said anything.... Later i had to confront him about a mistake he had made (we both were working on a project together) and he just blew up with rage. He just went on and on with fuming rage. It was so difficult to talk to him. He got aggressive, defensive everything. Said I treated him like an emotional punchin bag and what not. Honestly, i was shocked and I apologised. But he took it like a personal attack and kept trying to say hurtful things (trying to "get back" at whatever i said) Finally after some time we went back to talking normally but every other day he would start snapping at me and then he'd go silent/passive aggressive. I'd be really hurt because not only was i spoken to rudely for something small or usually a misunderstanding - he would not apologize either. He did that one more time when i said something that was actually not meant seriously - he got offended and yelled and then just vanished. I left him alone for 2 weeks or so but even after that he seemed like he was angry. We spoke about things, and he just blamed me for his anger....i kept silent coz i just wanted to hear him out and not cause another argument. He also indirectly admitted he has anger issues (brought up similar issues with his other close friend) and was keeping away from me as he wanted to cool down. Even after that chat, he is not really talking to me properly and its been over a month since all this happened. Honestly im just very hurt and angry myself now. I dont think I committed such a big crime to be treated this way and every-time I have to reach out to him and ask him.... otherwise he is just silent. Advice?
  5. I;m thinking about my next painting and I was just wondering what people generally like. (would love to sell some of them too!) Would it be.. 1) Landscape- Nature, seascapes, mountains trees 2) Cityscapes - Streets, lanes, people walking, shops 3) Portraits - of people or famous celebrities 4) Animals- Cats, dogs, wildlife 5) Still life- Flowers, glass, decor 6) Nudity 7) Food- Dessert, drinks, Wine 8) Automobile- Cars, bikes 9) Culture/Architecture- Holy places, Dance, Music, Historical sites 10) Geek Art- Movie/TV/ Comic/Fiction- Batman, Superman, Avengers Thats all I can think of. What would you like to see?
  6. Wow, funnily i actually agree with batya on that one. By being "friendly", you're only leading her on, thereby causing her more pain.
  7. Oh my god! Cant believe adults are like that! which part of the world are you at?? Im sorry you had to go through that, people can be incredibly shallow, insensitive and just plain horrible. And the fact that he actually listened to her, makes him no less. I'm sure you're beautiful in your own way, so please dont let such rubbish people affect your self esteem or self worth. As for the close friend, well now you know better, and as for the guy, just ignore him back. You deserve much much better.
  8. why is it that I usually never like the guy who likes me and he keeps pursuing me and asking me out...and then I finally get fed up and become distant/cold towards them to discourage them, which inturn makes them dislike me, which makes me feel terrible. And meanwhile, the other guy you like keeps showing signs that he may like you back but never asks you out, and then you flirt your butt off to encourage them, but they dont do anything either because the're too shy or not really interested or whatever the reason.... and Finally you're left single and feeling bad about both the situations. WHAT IS IT THAT I DO WRONG??!!!
  9. its more like hes nodding to me looking at him, rather than the conversation at hand.
  10. I think he likes you for sure. Dont know if he wants a relationship. Maybe you should ask him directly, like Hey, would you like to go on a date with me sometime? I really like you.
  11. Hi, I feel a bit gulty about talking about such a trivial matter, but it has kept me wondering for a long time. I used to work with this guy, an incredibly outgoing, loud and fun person, who used to turn into a really shy and nervous person aroud me. We have flirted on and off, He used to come to my desk almost every other day either to borrow stuff or "ask a question", lame attempts to make conversation and flirt around. He used to give me these intense looks a lot, ones that would make me feel like really heavy as if he was trying to say something to me. He seemed more serious about "us", whereas I just found it amusing at work.But in time, I developed a crush on him. Anyways, so I quit my job, and the last few days, we didnt really make a deal about it, allthough he did come talk to me about work, and throughout he was laughing/smiling because we both knew what he was doing. Most times, hed call me and ask me something and then go on to justify why he had called me, because he also knew it was a stupid reason. Plus that gave him extra time to talk, and I would listen. Finally last day, I left and since he wasnt really saying/doing anything about it, I decided to not say anything either. Afterall, we didnt know each other that well. He was around me a lot on the last day, but he didnt talk to me! A few weeks later, I sent a group email wishing all my colleagues for the season, and decided to add him in the list. Never got a reply to that. Its been more than a month,(I had almost forgotten about it all) and out of the blue, he replies wishing me back, and asking me how things are with me. So, I take the plunge and reply back with a short n sweet email, and ask him how work is etc. Its been 2 weeks and I havent recd his email to that yet. The entire email thing got me thinking of him again. Why are guys like this? thanks !! Sorry, I hope my post doesnt seem too silly and immature.
  12. why the heck is it ALWAYS my stupid love life that doesnt get anywhere...and its even more highlighted during valentines day!!!
  13. Ok so finally I wrote back to my crush who showed many-many signs of liking me, but took a month to acknowledge my ecard.(which was nice, he didnt have to) Its been a little less than a week. No reply. In my email, Ive sort of implied that he needs to reply back(ive asked him something). There are two things though: 1)Hes always been unbelievably shy and nervous with me and 2) hes super busy at work. People actually feel sorry for him, hes very overworked. But I feel like Im kidding myself with those excuses. Hes not interested, is he? Should I just forget about him?
  14. Just a wondering.....Do men like it when a woman has a sense of humor? What about if its a very different sense of humor, like sarcasm? What if you dont generally "get them"? Basically, how attractive is a woman's attempt to be a funny person? (in a cute decent way ofcourse)
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