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  1. Even before I read she was with another guy, I was thinking how ridiculous it is for her to not show up home until the next day, and she has a baby at home. Wow, that would be totally unacceptable. Then for her to lie by not telling you who she was with and then going out again. Is she crazy for thinking this is okay? I assume you mention the age in maybe her defense as if this would be appropriate for a younger person. I am 25, have been married 7 years and have 2 young boys and have never done anything like that. Heck, I never go anywhere, without my husband and/or kids. On top of it all, you caught her talking about you negatively to him?? That all is just way too much.
  2. Doctors have told me it is possible to get pregnant from precum. Of course they want your money on their birth control, too. Anyway, here is a really good answer I found somewhere: Precum or pre-ejaculate is a fluid coming from the penis and is produced by man’s bulbourethral glands. The main bulbourethral gland is the prostate, and there are also few smaller glands that are situated in the body of the penis. They produce clear liquid that is similar to other mucous excretion of the body, the main difference is the different contents of proteins and increased concentration of sugars like fructose. Precum’s main purpose is cleaning the urethra from any bacteria or the leftovers of urine, also precum is a lubricant that is used for lubrication of the glans and foreskin during the intercourse. Depending on the person precum may or may not contain small amounts of spermatozoids, the chances of pregnancy are small but, since in theory, only one sperm is enough to get a woman pregnant there’s still a chance that the pregnancy will happen. It would be the safest to use condoms during the entire duration of the sexual intercourse. So, sounds like precum washes away urine not urine washes away precum.
  3. Well, I don't know him but how much can you trust someone who is with two women. A polygamist, at least tells the wives about the other women. If ever he did want custody, although you have been/will be the primary care taker, I don't know how good it will look that he has provided everything for you- your house, your car and your financial needs, even so you do not work. If it turns ugly enough that he fights for custody, I'm sure you will be out of a house and his money so you better be stable on your own or you won't win. Also, as far as protection against his wife finding out, what does that mean? You said serves his wife right for having an abortion without telling her husband, well what do you think would serve you right for getting pregnant from a married man? BTW, how is his wife so horrible for not be honest with him about the abortion, yet he is so wonderful for not being honest about an affair and love child??
  4. I agree with you. Also, what kind of man would do that? He can't be in love with his wife or else he wouldn't have cheated and he can't be in love with his mistress or else he would leave his wife to be with her. Sounds like he has too much money to spend and probably has more than these two women or soon will.
  5. Also, I know you said before her periods come at different times so if she is really stressed out (which I'm sure she is) it could prevent her period from coming. So don't freak out if it is late right away.
  6. Well, it is less likely she is pregnant if she does get her period although she still could be. Most people just go by if they get their period then they aren't pregnant because that is how it is a lot of the time. A girl can become pregnant if she has sex during her period, but it is less common. The sperm would have to live inside her until her period is gone and they can only live for 5 days I think it was the doctor told me. I think that is what you asked.
  7. Hi, you mentioned her periods are irregular, does she go months without getting her period? I ask because when I was younger I was anemic and got my period maybe 1-2 times a year. Numerous doctors told me I could not get pregnant...you don't ovulate, you don't get pregnant. So maybe that his her situation. I have had scares and believe me, I thought I had every pregnancy symptom imaginable but that was just it, I imagined it. After about 5 years of unprotected sex (with my now husband ) I did get pregnant at 20 with twins. I didn't feel stomach pains, really my first symtoms were breast pain and dizziness. I even have my period when I was about 2-3 weeks pregnant so you can't even go strictly by that. Anyway, as far as pregnancy ruining someone's life, yes I did drop out of college and struggled but not a day goes by that I don't thank God that I did get pregnant. My life would be ruined without them!
  8. Hi, I have been with my husband for 10 years and married for 7. About 6 months ago he found an old friend (a woman he knew when he was like 10) online and has been talking to her on the phone. He talks to her everyday and for hours at a time. He has told me not to call him at work b/c he will get in trouble, then I went to add money to his cell phone and noticed that he calls this girl from work everyday about 5-8 times. He comes home from work and calls her and she even calls here close to midnight. I have heard him call her just to say good morning or good night and sweet dreams. He has even told her before referring to a picture that she is too hot to be wearing clothes! He even talked to her last night for 4 straight hours! There is no way this could be just a "normal" girl friendship, right?? He has never had any other "girl" friends in the past. They even have pet names for each other. She does live in another state so I know they aren;t doing anything although he keeps bugging me to go visit her. This just feels so wrong. Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated! Thank you!
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