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Hi. I need some help putting a CD together. I'm making a CD for my best friend; and I need some more songs to fill it up. What I'm looking for are songs where the topic is friendship and support. Songs that will tell this girl that I'll allways be there. You know the type; "The Calling - Wherever You Will Go", "Mariah Carey & Brian McKnight - Whenever You Call", "The Pretenders - I'll Stand By You" - Those types of songs .. Does anyone have any recommendations? I have some tracks to fill. Thanks to everyone who takes the time to leave a tip here!

Well - this is the problem, you see .. The loneliness is making it hard for her to get that time she needs to clear her head. They have cut contact, as well as I know, but they still have mutual friends they communicate through. At least she calls her friends to check up on him. And now all she does is worry about what he is up to. She's having problems letting him go .. I don't think I'll need any more replies to this thread. Thanks to those who tried to help here, but I don't think there is much else to do for me, then just say what I have said here to her - and let her go through it on her own. I just wanna help ..

On Valentines Day, a female friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend. Yesterday would have been their three year anniversary. The reason for the breakup was her fear of settling down. Her boyfriend was too controlling; and she felt that she didn't want to be "locked to him" for the rest of her life just yet. So the situation now is this - He loves her, and wants her back. She loves him, miss him, and is unsure what she wants. She left town for a few days, but all she does is thinking about him. She feels like "half of her" is missing; and is having a hard time living her life, when feeling so incomplete. She is considering taking him back, but they have been through this before once or twice, and it has ended up like this then as well. What I am wondering - What do I say to help her out? I'm tired of the old "time will heal all wounds". I don't want her to take him back just because she feels incomplete NOW. She'll need to let time "complete her" again, but I don't think she has the strength to wait for time to help her out here .. What advice can I give her? What can I do?

Hi. As you all probobly know, Valentines day is soon here. What I was wondering - What to get for my female friend? She's in my class, and lately our relationship has improved. We've got to know each other better, and I really - and I mean really - like this girl. I'm in love with being her friend. I need something that says "I don't want our friendship to ever end. I really, really, really, really like you, and I hope our relationship will keep on improving." My feelings for this girl are strong. I'm actually in love with her, but still - I wan't to give her something that says FRIEND. What do I get her? Any tips? Thanks!

Okay people.. I bought a book about friendship. I went to this nice store, and looked through a lot of books, and finally found one that I thought was nice. So I bought it, and thought to myself that I had bough a nice gift for her, and that she would love it. BUT .. When I looked at it more closely, and read some more of it .. Ofcourse, it was all a bunch of sh!t. Most of it didn't even involve friendship! I got played! .. So I threw it away, and bought a DVD with all her favorite artists performing live. She would have loved that one, but after I bought it I called a friend of hers, to make sure that the girl has a DVD-player. Which ofcourse whe doesn't! So I think to myself .. I don't want to throw away another gift, and spend more money on a new one.. thereforeeee I go back to the store to get a refund.. But no, they didn't allow that; don't ask me why. So again, I go to another store; en end up buying a CD (feat. the same people from the DVD).. Then, when I am on my way up to her house.. Go figure, my car breaks down! I end up taking a cab the rest of the way, showing up at the doorstep with oil and stuff on my fingers; "happy birthday!" So I gave her a hug (a big one, making her boyfriend jealous and her gift, before having to run back to my car, because a friend was waiting to tow it home! When I got home a while later, I called her to check on how the party had been .. and she was a bit upset. So I asked her 'what's wrong?' - and she tells me that someone at the party had stolen all the gifts she had gotten, plus emptied out the fridge! How perfect is that? Now I only wonder what I could have done differently to improve our friendship .. Bought her something else; been at the party; not made her boyfriend jealous; made boyfriend more jealous; found the thief and kicked his butt around; simply kick her boyfriends butt around a bit instead (improving anything? ehm.. nice thought though stayed away completely.. feeeew, I've got to get some sleep!

Well .. I don't want to harm their relationship. I don't witsh for them to break up, or to be a reason for their fighting. I don't want that hanging over me, even though her boyfriend is a complete asshole! (no wonder why he end up in fights) .. So; Thanks to all of you for good tips on what to buy her, and ehm, what to do as well .. I'm going to buy her something tomorrow. Don't know what it's gonna be jet, but I'm sure I'll find something nice! And .. I'm still thinking of going to the party tomorrow, but I don't really know. I might just go up there for a few minutes, and give her the gift. Who knows?

Well .. They fight because of, not only me, but the fact that she has male friends that he doesn't know. A bit childish, I know! I did talk to her about it.. And I said that I didn't want to be a reason for them fighting. But I'm not the only reason for them having that same fight, so it hasn't helped much. But that's not really of the issue here. I just said that I can't do much about it .. It's for them to sort out, and I would only make things worse by interfering. I haven't talked to her boyfriend about thir situation, because I'm positive that talking to him would definetly not improve the way things are.. Anyways .. Giftsuggestions!

Thats a good idea.. Uhm, still .. I'm just thinking. Me and her boyfriend aren't getting along to good; and if she ever put up a picture of me and her together; they would end up fighting, and I don't want to cause her harm.. But still .. A really good idea; if only the situation would have been a bit different! Thanks! .. keep 'em comin'!

Hi. I'm gonna explain the whole situation .. There's this girl, that I've had feelings for, for quite some time now. But I do not wish to pursue these feelings, due to the fact that she has a boyfriend. What I feel about this is .. As long as she is happy, I'm happy too. But still .. I'm in love with her, and wish to get to know her better. And we have discussed all of this, and agreed to get to know each other better, as friends. We aren't really that close. You see .. We're classmates, and have never spent much time together outside of school. But there is nothing in the world that I would like better, then to get to know her better, and have a closer friendship with her .. Also .. Her boyfriend and her have been having some issues about her male friends. Seeing it that I'm one of these male friends (somehow a 'problem' to her boyfriend) - I have decided to reject her invitation to attend her birthdayparty.. I don't want to cause trouble between them. But; I feel that I have to get her something nice, instead of my presance Something that says 'friendship'! So.. With her birthday coming; this weekend actually.. WHAT should I get for her? What says "I want our friendship to grow" the best? Anything you might think of would help me out, seeing it that I'm clueless at this time .. I got this cute little card that I'm gonna write some well-chosen words on; but I don't know what to get, to attatch the card to! If you don't have any spesific ideas, just give me a tip, and I'll work something out from what she is into .. Like 'clothes', 'necklases', whatever.. - And should I get her flowers, or would that be to 'weird'? Anyway .. Keyword FRIENDSHIP

Thanks for everything .. BUT; my problem with eating more, is that I just don't get around to doing so! So I'm gonna ask for some advice on HOW to EAT MORE ? Don't ask me why, but I've never been a big eater .. What do I do?

Hi. I didn't read any more then this, and I don't have time to do so.. Sorry. But from reading this, I just have to say .. Guys doing this, is not worth spending any time with. You should just look at it in a positive way. If they don't want to know you, or be with you, because you're not letting them in your pants; they're a bunch of no-good assholes.. And believe me, it is good finding that out before you go and do something you could regret for the rest of your life ..

Thanks everyone. I'm downloading a whole bunch of songs! HondaRaceGirl : Only 3? I just filled up my "Down 10" .. And I have three more on the way now, I guess Again.. Thanks. Most of you have good taste in music!

I just noticed all the nice quotes that are in a lot of the posts. "Love wasn't put in your heart to stay. Love isn't love until you give it away." "Nobody is worth your tears, and if they are, they'll never make you cry." "It's better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all." Blabla.. jadijadi .. I think: There are a lot of beautiful (and true) things to say .. Problem with these things is that someone has allready said it better before! (Even that thing So.. I was wondering: If anyone has any good quotes about love, or something around that wide subject .. please, repeat it here .. And if anyone knows any places on the web to find something like this, would you please post an URL? Thanks! "Love is being stupid together." - Paul Valery

Didn't note what? REM - Everybody Hurts The girl who broke my hearts favourite song actually .. It was one of my favourites too, but I don't know! Good song though. That's the kind of songs I'm looking for! Something soft and sad .. Soft rockish; old classics? Sumptin!