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  1. I would not say that, it would make a person sound resentful and angry. A simple "Good luck, I hope you find what you are looking for" is best.
  2. The book I am reading "Peace between the sheets" by Marnia Robinson. The author claims that orgasms (male & female) is what causes emotional separation in relationships, causing people to be irritable and find faults with one another. That is why the male wants to leave or becomes distant right after sex. She advocates having sex without coming, not even in the end.
  3. Wheather you should go for it or not has to be your/her decision. I would.
  4. Has anyone tried tantric sex? Tantic sex means beeing sexually intimate without orgasm. I am currently reading a book about it and would like to try it. Just have to convice my bf.
  5. My bf & I were apart for 3 years and got back together.
  6. My married with kids girlfriend tell m ethe same thing, and then ask when am I planning to have kids. I am not.
  7. I have a similar problem. My mother does not like my bf, and the feeling is mutual. He tried to be nice and win her over before, but it never worked. As far as she is concered he is the wrong religion, has the wrong job, is too old. She just refuses to accept him. Now it is so bad that he will not go to family functions at all. He is very resentfull about the way she behaves. I never got along with my mother myself, she is very manipulative and always trys to change other people. She constantly give unwanted advice. I only visit her when my sister is in town. We can't spend 20 minuted together without fighting. I do try to maintain a relationship with her, she is my mother after all. On the plus side, his parents love me. But they hate their other daughter in low. I think this is just human nature to want a "star from the sky" for your child. Real people just don't measure up.
  8. -words of affirmation -quality time -gifts -acts of service -physical touch I think that his most important thing is "quality time", while for me it is the least important. I just realized this after knowing the man for 7 years!
  9. I agree and I feel good that he wants my company. He can be really sweet. I am a driven workoholic type, always busy doing something "important". It is not very good for the ralationship. He keeps telling me to relax, I think I will now. I am going to schedule specific times for relaxation and being with him so that I don't feel so guilty doing "nothing".
  10. Funny, usually women are the "shoppers". I pretty much decided to cut the shopping time, I have my priorities and don't see a reason for doing something i don't enjoy. I don't mind shopping for clothes or books. We do schedule dates now. I would rather spend time going to shows, eating out and having fun. He also likes watching movies a lot and I am a total computer addict. I think I will watch more movies with him.
  11. He also like for me to come with him to stores like Walmart and grocery stores, where he wants to spend all day shopping and looking around. I get so bored and impatient, I view it as terrible waste of time. I usually just follow my shopping list and get out in 10-20 minutes. So decided to never again go shopping with him, because it is just so annoying. Today he was asking me if I wanted to come to the store with him 5 times. I did not go. We will just have to spend time together doing something else.
  12. Run little rabbit Thanks, it is a very helpful post. I think may be he just likes speding time together. We have to make more time fro this.
  13. What do you do to show love to your partner? What would you like them to do to show you love? There is very little I can do to show my bf I care, he is so self suficient that he does not need anything. I don't cook for him, he is just impossible to satisfy in this department, he does not like massages etc... Whan I asked him what he would like me to do, he said that he likes a certain sexual thing, which I am just not into. So i don't really do anything and I would like to sometimes. I am not very demanding, as long as the guy does not annoy me or bother me I feel fine. If he really want to put some effort into it I like: Masseges, going out, food, especially chocolates, gifts, flowers, sweet talk or anything romantic. I find that most men need some specific instructions to get them to do any of these things. My bf used to write me little love notes in the morning before he left for work, this was the sweetest thing he ever did.
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