breakdown

For a woman to say "I need time to be alone", "I want to be single", "I dont want to talk on the phone" and "I dont want to see you", is that literally what they mean or is that otherwise?. Are those hints that the other person should take a stronger lead?

Let stuff happen? I have tried being patient and I have tried to stay calm and not call when she says she dont wanna talk on the phone. What can I do but sit alone and wait on her to call?

I am in a relationship with a woman younger than I am and how just broke up a long term relationship she was in. Everything was fine at first because she says she didnt love the other and wasnt loved in return. But since the last 4 days now, she has of sung a differet tune. Now all she is saying is she dont us anymore. She cant handle me it seems because of the distance (we are a few states apart) and the feelings. She says she needs to be alone and to be single and she says she is not ready for a relationship. But then she says she is going to keep in touch with her ex and see if they will work out again. If her ex will show some faith in them again. I need advice..I need help for what to do next...pls advice someone, anyone....