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  1. selkie
    A male friend of mine has freaked me out. I know he is STILL pining over his ex. I asked him how many days of NC. 521 days he told me. And he STILL talks theoretically about them getting back together and having kids. Hmm I think he needs to stop counting and move on.
  2. selkie
    You need to find a couple of other men to focus on. I think you're dwelling on him all your waking hours.
  3. selkie
    Found it amusing cause it was a 1 page thread. lol
  4. selkie
    Seems kinda curious when it's a topic that comes up all time. LOL
  5. selkie
    Oh any reason you bumped a 3 year old thread ?
  6. selkie
    Went 10 days and now I failed. Ex contacted me with emails and pictures tonight and I gave in and emailed him back. I was polite, not gushing and let him know Ill be away for business trip for a good while. Vague, but sitll broke contact. ARGH. DO OVER.
  7. selkie
    This reminds me of my 1st boner encounter. I was so damn pure that in 9th grade I was at a dance and this senior who was 6'5 (i was and am 5'5) was slow dancing against me and i thought he was rudely pushing against my stomach with his lower arm. Hahahaha. It wasnt an arm.
  8. selkie
    I LOVE that this thread is over 3 years old. I bet if I come back here in 15 years it will still be going. Anyway, the only guy who didnt get a boner kissing me made me think he was GAY. This was a guy I dirty danced in front of all night and who had tol dme how sultry and hot I am. Turns out he was a whiskey d1ck.
  9. selkie
    I ABSOLUTELY dont want my back, but I still understand how hard it is to resist them when they attempt contact. I thought it would be easy but its hard .... I ignored his increasingly frantic IMs tonight, but it was so painful to not give in and say Hi back. Thats why I will reiterate for the millionth time the two best means of maintaining no contact. 1. Shutting down all avenues of contact. 2. Keeping insanely busy at all times.
  10. selkie
    fck fck fck fck gave in and let him IM him me.........ARGHGHRHGHRGHG He had a great excuse . his sister is back from Iraq. Dammit.... But again I know how much he cares and misses me at least. Alright I have to sign offline.
  11. selkie
    I am calm in my continued no contact. I know he wants to get back together but I can not attempt it until I live in same city. Which will be a little under 3 months from now. I am calm because I know him well enough to know how he reacted to past serious break ups. He let me know he tried to move on and would become preoccupied with girls who ignored him cold. So I know this is the very best course of action.
  12. selkie
    might read thiscc
  13. selkie
    change of circumstances
  14. selkie
    . change of circumstances
  15. selkie
    For some reason my friends think that either women who stay at home are 1. boring. 2. objectified and repressed 3. boring, objectified and repressed. We've had some heated arguments about it and I give up trying to stick up for SAHM.
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