I ABSOLUTELY dont want my back, but I still understand how hard it is to resist them when they attempt contact.
I thought it would be easy but its hard .... I ignored his increasingly frantic IMs tonight, but it was so painful to not give in and say Hi back.
Thats why I will reiterate for the millionth time the two best means of maintaining no contact.
1. Shutting down all avenues of contact.
2. Keeping insanely busy at all times.