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Hey saltandvinegar Good for you for realising what's happening and making the decision to take a step backwards. You're already doing better than I did! What I think you need is something that distracts you from the possibility of calling. Whilst the simplest option is to delete the number, I know that it isn't actually the simplest. in my experience, I just found excuses to write it down somewhere else 'just in case' and it was always accessible. I should imagine also, seeing your phone and not seeing a missed call is difficult? I hated that more than most things if I'm completely honest! I took a solution to this from a routine when I'm walking home and it seems to take forever. Have check points through your day, but don't set them in advance, and change them every day. e.g. When you get up think "I'm going to make it until leaving for work until not ringing him or checking my phone" don't think beyond this or anything else, just concentrate on everything you need to do until that point. just before that point think "ok, now I'm going to make it until I've got to work and have made myself a hot drink and am settled" Work through the day like this, and it will make the days go a lot quicker, i can promise you. There will obviously be tempting moments, but just try and distract yourself from it with something...anything that is by no means related. Is there any other main issue giving you grief at the moment? I hope my ideas help..

Wahey! Hello! Just wanted to stop by and say, it works people, it works like a charm!! I used SuperDave's fantastic challenge at the beginning of this year. It was hard, I won't deny it, every day the temptation just to send a quick email, how could that hurt, maybe he might finally explain himself blah blah blah. But! I completed the challenge in....February. Somehow...inexplicably...my ex chose the 33rd day to contact me? But I was strong and told him where to go with his "fancy meeting up?" I got happier and happier since then, a month and a half after finishing the challenge I met my now boyfriend who is better than I ever could have imagined, and my life has just taken a complete 180 spin! Just wanted to show some support, you CAN do it, and there's no better place in the world to get help and advice than ENA, so cherish this place I'm more than happy to share any experiences or thoughts with anyone, pm me anytime. I know I'm only at the tender age of 19, but if you can, ignore that. My ridiculously childish ex was 24 when we were going out, and I was 18, and the more mature one. I think that's forced me to grow up a little faster than hoped, but at least I have some more life experience now right? Dave - Thank you again

As long as it's not going in anywhere, or touching any particularly sensitive skin, you're ok. It's a bit tricky to get the knack of and so unnattractive sitting in the bathroom with your legs spread waiting for it to do its work. But you can do it!

There are a load, they do have a smell, but it's not that bad and it doesn't linger! Honestly, it's not a horrible smell, just a sort of...I dunno, cosmetic smells I guess? You have to wash the area afterwards anyway, to make sure there isn't any cream left on your body, so if you hate it that much, you can wash the smell away instantly. I vary between Veet and own brand stuff from places like Superdrug or Boots. If you go for Veet, don't get the stuff that 'stays in in the shower' cause it don't. It's just more expensive, lol

Have you considered using deploratory creams? I always had the same problem as you, alongside major itchiness when it was growing back, so now I use cream. It's gonna me more expensive, but lasts longer, doesn't give you razor burn or acne, and doesn't itch like a madman when it grows back. I think you should give it a go, and if it's not your thing, then ok, but if it is, you've saved yourself many potential nicks and cuts in places you do NOT want nicks or cuts. x

LOVE IT! One of the things I missed most when single. I absolutely love it.

Yeah...or eyes. Which can be difficult to take note of when you're eye level with his hips. Keeps me trying harder though, I'm determined to make it impossible for him to stay so quiet!!

My boyfriend and I have built up a repertoire of kisses now, mostly just for fun, but the fact that they're so fun makes everything about our relationship *lovely*. Like...movie kisses, where you do the big old passionate hard kiss on the mouth. Or delayed noise kisses LOL. Kisses where we don't purse our lips at all, literally just press our faces together. Cracks me up when he snogs my nose Or through the covers. Ah...good times!!!

I like it. I'm not sure why...my jaw aches like no man's business during/slash after, but it's just so good! I guess hearing my boyfriend is a big part of what I like about it, and feeling his legs (amongst other things) twitching and knowing that when he stops me and we actually have sex I know that he couldn't want me more than right then.

I'm really jealous of you guys! My ex ex (the one I still get along with really well) did something very simple, but it made me cry cause I was so happy. He wrote out the chorus to our song, stuck it to a bit of card and hid it under my pillow one day when he was over. We went out straight after that, so it wasn't until I went to bed and put my hand under the pillow that I found it. It was so lovely.

Hello people...haven't been on here much lately I know. Just didn't feel like I needed to let it all out like before! Got a job, woo! But now I'm knackered, so not so woo. Today I'd just started listening to 'Don't Stop Believin' (Journey) and it always makes me think of SuperDave now But it was fantastic timing. I put it on, then got on the train and happened to sit accross from a rather attractive young chap. Not like opposite but...there are these seats there are just single seats near the loos, and they're accross from each other. So I was sitting there being all chirpy, and when I was stood at the door I looked accross to see if the man enxt to me was going to press the open button or not, and saw in my peripheral vision that this OTHER guy was looking at me, so I looked right back at him and it was just fantastic. You know that whole split second thing and you know you'll never see them ever again so you just do what your gut says. Like that. Got off the train after that and grinned a *lot*. And then the bus arrived a minute after I got to the bus stop, perfect! Got home and saw my ex had added me to facebook...again. I'd accepted him before then deleted him. That time I put it down to him importing his contacts and that was why. I don't understand what's going on this time. *sigh*

Snail trails own. I don't think I'd like no hair at all...would make you seem too young. Plus you know...stubble.

I understand what that must feel like. What does your nan think of all this? Maybe if you feel odd taking the money and spending it, you could take it and put it into an account somewhere you can't reach, and don't use any of it until your nan does pass away, then it won't feel like so much of a betrayal?

Take a test before you get too worked up, you don't want to panic over nothing. I had a similar situation...had sex a week before he dumped me. I'd just changed pill and wasn't sure what the deal was there, and I wasn't sure if all the stress of the break up was causing me to go a bit mental. I took two tests, and they were negative. So take a test, and if it it is positive, then discuss it with him. Good luck xx