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...and i'm starting to get sick of it. he always talk to me bout his problems, and that's totally fine with me. but he always feel sorry for himself, and no matter how much i encourage him, he would always resort to self-pitying, saying that life is unfair and that no one accepts him for who he is, the whole nine yards. i don't know what to say anymore. before, i say that he's not alone, and some people experience the same thing so he needs to be tough for himself, and whatnot. but now, i'm just out of words! i was never good at giving advices, so it's always hard for for me everytime he does that. what should i say to him?

geroff them grass dude. it wasn't bad at all! ahh, i can even relate to it, dang. i always wanted to write poetry just like that. apparently, i'm not good at it. no matter how hard i tried, it still sounded silly. anyway, keep it up bud.

i don't want my mate to have other mates, but i don't tell him that. i just keep it to myself. and everytime he talks about these other people, i just appear cool and act like everything's fine as. but deep inside, i fear that my mate would leave one day. i mean, ive had heaps of mates before. i always try to be good, help them in every way i can, say with homeworks and other school stuff, i try to learn what their interests/hobbies are, but all of them just left, we lost contact. i tried emailing them, but they didnt respond. i felt betrayed. just last year, i found a new mate. so i did the same thing. i tried to help this mate with school stuff. i never had interest in rugby, but i tried learning it because he was keen on that. i tried to be there if he needed my help with other things (like when he and his gf fought). but then when the holidays came, i never heard from him again. i tried to call him, but he doesnt answer. i treasure all me mates. i don't feel like i deserve to be treated like how my former mates treated me because i know i tried to be solid for them. i don't know if i'm being naive or what. all i know is that it sucked big time. now i have a new mate, again. i just feel worried that this person will leave just like what others did. i don't want to be possessive, but at the same time, i don't want people to treat me like rubbish. what do i do now? how do i act towards my mate?

just reading this post makes me worried sick. i'm only 19, i'm still single, and i suppose i'm waiting for the 'right person', which sounds quite stupid to most of my mates. reckon i'm just the same as david90. people think i'm a bit anti-social but i know for sure i just have problems connecting with people. And ye, my mates keep on pressuring me to go and look for a gf. and they do introduce me to these chicks, but i just get stressed and stuff so i don't want to do that. and now i feel like i'm a freak or something for not being the same as them. this is slightly off track. but ye, reading this just made me worried bout being in the same situation as chai714's mate, for some weird resons.