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  1. i dress to show off my clevage for my boyfriend. i don't wear anything too revealing though... so if she is... she's trying to get other guys' attention.
  2. as for me, i baby talk all my animals. i only baby talk my boyfriend when he's whinning about something ridiculous to mock him.
  3. my boyfriend baby talks me. well i guess u could call it that. he makes up a bunch of words and weird nick names for me in baby talk and continues with it for 5-6 minutes without me participating at all. it makes me laugh.. he reminds me of a parot that sits there talking to itself. i'm not exactly sure of what your concept of a relationship is, but i think its the HEALTHY couples that baby talk each other. you can't sit there straight- faced discussing values, relationship tactics, stocks and bonds and the weather all day every day. i'll watch the news for that. i want to have fun and be silly with my boyfriend.
  4. stretch marks fade with time. however if you'e the only one out of your whole family that has stretch marks, keep that in mind and make sure your skin moisturized with heavy creams. drinking lots of water is good and so is eating olive oil when you can.
  5. some time in april or may i was running down my tile stairs after jumping out of the shower to answer the door. i slipped and fell but i landed on the corner of one of the stairs- which, being tile, was really sharp. i hit the corner full force with the back of my pelvic bone, and was left with a HUGE black, yellow, purple, and red bruise along with a pocket of what i'm assuming was blood. the bruise is mainly gone, however the pocket is still there. the size is just about the same since 2 days after it happened and there is still very slight bruising around it. it is also still tender. i haven't been to the doctor b/c i'm uninsured and it can be very expensive. however, i recently heard that it could be a blood clot and it can eventually break down and travel throughout my body and cause very severe problems. my questions are: is this true? what is the treatment for this sort of thing? has this happened to anyone? what did they do to treat it? any info is greatly appreciated.
  6. i've heard of and known a few people to get pregnant while on birth control. however, none who used condoms. if u want to be extra safe, wear a condom and pull out (but hold the condom as you do so) and there should be virtually no risk. make sure u keep the condoms in a cool environment, and that none of the ones u use are expired and you shouldn't have anything to worry about. i think the truth of the matter is that you're not really ready for this step and you're looking for something to validate your aprehension. you're allowed to be nervous and scared about sex. it's ok... i know you're a guy and you're supposed to be a walking sack of hormones according to society, but it's just fine to want to take things slow and wait it out. she'll feel like she's worth a lot more if you want to take things slow.
  7. as far as the whole changing thing, everyone says that people don't change, a leopard doesn't change its spots and all that... but i've come to the conclusion that it's a person to person thing. my current boyfriend used to be totally inconsiderate, forgetful, thoughtless, and everything else. as we went along, he changed every behavior that hurt me and now, he's amazing. he's like a machine. however, my ex was an abusive, controlling, psycho who always promised to change and to this day (we dated for 3 years and broke up 2 years ago) is still exactly the way i left him. if your guy is willing to try to change, it's worth giving him a shot. if it's all empty promises and you don't see any changes, leave.
  8. if i were you, i'd still get the presents, wrap them and all that, but hide them from him. and on x-mas.... act like it's just another day. when he asks where his presents are, tell him you canceled the orders just like he asked and you didn't want to spend sp much money on something he didn't want or "care" to have. that'll get him going of course, once he appologizes, and gets you another candle just like the one he broke, he can have his presents.
  9. i'm not really an outgoing person, but if i see something i want, i get it. around the time i met my current b/f i was talking to another guy (i asked for that guys phone number and called him the next day) and when i met my boyfriend, he initiated the flirting, but when i liked him i told him flat out in plain english "i like you." it's not that complicated.... i just did it.
  10. well... i consider myself a typical girl. i also consider myself a cute girl... so if i'm the type of girl that a guy wants to appeal to, take my advice. if not, try your own ideas. girls like attention. ALL girls like attention. we like guys to be persistent, confident, charming, funny, and cute. when you talk to a girl, act like there is no possible reason she wouldn't want to rip your clothes off. talk to her like you already have her in the bag. girls hate it but love it at the same time... it's a strange allure. that's exactly what my boyfriend did. when we were talking, he'd send me funny/dirty text messages while he was sitting right next to me or really late at night. if we were both at the same party and he couldn't find a seat right next to me he'd find a seat near by and call me. he'd insist i wanted him and i liked him. he could write a book. main idea: don't try and find some slick, unobvious way to talk to a girl. do it obviously, make a scene, let her know you're interested, attracted, and want to talk to her.
  11. haha come on! just hold your breath and dial! the adrenaline rush is so much fun! you'll be able to run a marathon when you hang up. and plus, you don't even have to see him at work every day now if things don't go smoothly! it's perfect!
  12. if you're having sex with someone in hopes of demonstrating your emotions for them, and they're having sex with you for fun and comfort, you need to get out of that situation. that is going to crash and burn eventually and the more you invest, the more you get your hopes up, the more it's going to hurt when reality sets in.
  13. yea... ask your grandma how much she weighs. my parents used to do the same thing to me... and it hurts b/c your family members are people you love and trust and you don't think they'd be hurting you intentionally. next time she starts picking on you, stand up for yourself. ask her if it's fun for her to make you feel fat. when she tells you you've had enough food for the day say, "oh, you're right. i'll be right back, i'm gonna throw up dinner".
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