Satsuma

I thought it was a good idea to post this because its lovely and very true. I hope you enjoy it. I got this poem when i was doing some training at work (weird place to get one) and i thought i would share it with you. The Value Of A Smile It costs nothing but creates much. It enriches those who receive without impoverishing those who give. It happens in a flash and the memory of it sometimes lasts forever. None are so rich they can get along without it. And none are so poor, but are richer for its benefits. It creates happiness in the home, fosters goodwill in business and is the countersign of friends. It is rest for the weary, daylight for the discouraged, sunshine to the sad, and natures best antidote for trouble. Yet it cannot be bought, begged, borrowed or stolen, for it is something that is no earthly good to anybody, until it is given away. So if i should be too tired to give you a smile, will you please leave one of yours. For nobody needs a smile so much, as those who have none left to give.

Maybe she doesnt want to go that far with you yet because it hasnt been long enough. Just give her some time and dont pressurise anything.

Well i could turn my emotion off easily and quickly because my ex treated my badly and i had to get out of the relationship. I had no feelings for him except anger because of what he did and was like so for my situation it was easier to get rid of the emotion. But sometimes i do get bad memories. I just thought that there is no reason to think about him and i should move on which i did, plus i use NC to make it easier.

I am exactly like that too, i went to the doctor and told her about it and she didnt put me on the pill, she gave me some tablets called Mefenamic acid. These help relieve the symptons. So i suggest you see your doctor because he/she may perscribe it for you.

Well i have never had sex but when the time comes i am too self conscious to take my clothes off, i could take probably everything off except my bra. But like some other people have said you dont have to be completley naked. Im definetly planning keeping the bra on and when im more comfortable i will take it off.

Well its unfair on the person to not know about the unfaithfullness of their partner. And it wont make the relationship continue because youll be living with the guilt.

Yes, you have to be honest in a relationship and shouldnt keep secrets.

I agree... go away from the virtual boyfriend stuff. When i was 14 i got into it but when he wanted to meet i actually thought 'What am i doing this for? I should be finding a real guy not someone who can be fake'

Im sorry to hear about that

How can you enjoy talking to someone random stranger over the internet about what you had for dinner?

And do you really think he will be with you for all that time just by talking on the internet? I highly doubt it.

But you might leave it to late. Like you might end up trying to meet the guy and it ends up to be a pervy old man who could do anything to you.

Well cant you see where were coming from? Your 14 going out with a so called 16 year old you havent even met. And those pictures hes shown you could be fake, All you need to do is go on a site like myspace and you have the choice of faking an identity.

Well if you want to be stuck in this 'going nowhere relationship' then its up to you, but you will be hurt.

Thats the thing.. i dont think this is love.