I know what you're thinking...this is something that should have been discussed before we got married.....it was. He even told me that once we are married I can get pregnant right away. Then the excuses came, we need a house first, we need time just for us etc...
I don't really care what kind of excuses he has...it all means the same thing, he's not ready.
I'm 32 and I've had two miscarriages in the past and I'm not even sure that I can have any children and, if I can, it may take years. I'm willing to try though..in fact, I have to try.
I resent him a little for leading me on the way that he did and I feel a little dumb for marrying him without being certain of his decision..but all that aside...I know I can't stay with him and wait forever.
All I really want to know is what you guys 'n gals think is a fair length of time to wait for him? I've been feeling quite depressed about this lately, especially since he isn't any closer now than he was two years ago and I'm beginning to think that I may wait forever. Do you think I'm over reacting?
Any major step in our relationship he has almost had to be pressured into and this is obviously not a choice here. He always seems to need a kick in the *ss and this time he isn't going to get one, he's on his own ... so thereforeeeeeee he'll never make a decision.
I guess all that I really wanted here was for someone to listen...thanks.
