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  1. MovingOnUp
    Dear Ma n Pa, How's.....'up there', 'heaven' or 'the stars'? No idea what to call where you both are, but I sincerely hope with every fibre of my being that it's like a luxury cruise where you are together, happy and have not a single worry. This has all happened so soon. I don't need to tell you Dad that you didn't cope without Mum. Like a cup of English breakfast tea without milk let alone missing a biscuit. I'm sorry I was a poor substitute for Mum, and even more sorry for being useless. I hope you told Mum all about our 'little' one who is not so little any more. He misses you, but not as much as I do. I know that you're proud of him. He's wonderful. I love you both very much, miss you very much and hope that I have not been too much of a disappointment. xxx
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    Dearest Mumma, I am seriously not impressed with you passing away and guess you feel the same way. I'm not as nice as you; I could easily choose someone to take your place to have you back with us. I'm sure that if you're aware of this post, you'll now be mentally scolding me for making such an unpleasant, insincere and 'naught' statement. I miss you. Nothing this awful has ever happened to me before, and to make matters worse, you're not there to make me a cuppa and talk me through it! Your Grandson is wonderful. Literally as wonderful as you said he would be. Gutted you can't cuddle him for yourself and enjoy him. He'll know all about you when he gets older. You'll always be a part of family life. If you're able to hear/read/know this, then you know Dad is up to all sorts. Cooking food he'd never eat if we encouraged him to, insulting people (including me) left right and center, and generally trying to live without you. He's beginning to develop a relationship with me! It's only taken 31 years. Don't worry, I'll look after him/ help him look after himself. Keep an eye on him When he's driving though. Mum - I'm so sorry you were scared in the end. You could have told me. I'm sorry you felt you had to protect me by not telling me. I would have told you everything that made me love you, but I hope you know that anyway. P.s. I hope that when you pass, old griviences don't matter anymore. I know my sister is a class A **** and hurt you but she's just..... Her. I still want to rub her face in gravel a lil bit though.... I know; I'm naughty. Love you Mumma x
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    Oh I'm so sorry! That kind of behaviour is terrible. Please try not to take what they say to heart, their opinions really don't matter! Who'd listen to people like that? If I were you I'd contact head office as well as they shouldn't be allowed to get away with it.
  4. MovingOnUp
    Don't give up hope! To meet new people (and possibly women you could date)you could try new things, join a club, take a course, go somewhere new. If you find an activity that makes you happy then it's even better as you are doing something for yourself to make yourself happy and will be meeting new people at the same time.
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    Sometimes when talking face to face it's difficult to actually listen to the person if they are telling you something you don't want to hear. Maybe you could write your mom a letter explaining to her how you feel. As it is less confrontational that a conversation she may read it several times and take the time for the information to sink in. You cant argue with a letter! You can only read it.
  6. MovingOnUp
    Considering his behaviour I think you've been more than generous! I really don't think you should worry about what he says about your level of generosity. Would it be worth calmly explaining how you feel?
  7. MovingOnUp
    It's nice knowing I'm not alone in how I feel but I wouldn't wish it on anyone! Sorry you're feeling the same way.
  8. MovingOnUp
    We broke up months ago, NC has done wonders, I've spent lots of time with friends, been very busy and have planned a holiday with the girls for next summer. However for some reason this week I'm feeling a bit rubbish. It'll pass I'm just not very patient!
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    First I'd like to say thank you to everyone that posts here, I don't often post but this place has helped me to maintain my sanity! I'd just like to say 'yuck' as I'm fed up of feeling this way! Anyone else wish they could speed up time and get over it all a lot faster? I guess things can only get better.
  10. MovingOnUp
    There is hope! I was in a similar situation a few years ago where I had pushed everyone except my partner away from me. He left me for another woman and I was devestated. I can honestly say if I saw the guy now I would wish him well and hope he was happy because the decision he made forced me to change my life (ie get a life!) Take some time to focus on you. What would you like to do with your life? Find some new hobbies, go to new places, I started studying again. It will get easier I promise it just takes time and effort. Best wishes x
  11. MovingOnUp
    I think writing her a letter might be a good idea. You could explain how you feel and let her know you understand how she is feeling. Then you could give her the space she needs at the moment, and take some time for yourself.
  12. MovingOnUp
    Thanks Andy. Inspiring post. NC is hard and there has been many times that I have wanted to contact my ex but it's posts like that which help me to remember I'm doing this for myself and that I can be strong. And for anyone doing NC right now stay strong! We can do it.
  13. MovingOnUp
    Took me 2 months to realise full NC was the only way to go for my sanity. It's now been 12 days of NC. It's horrible at the moment but I know It'll pass and that hopefully I'll start to hurt a little less. That will happen right!!??
  14. MovingOnUp
    I think it's a case of each to their own. Same as some guys liking curvy women and some liking slim women. Confidence helps attractiveness and so does knowing what looks good on you.
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