Mistical

I play the same game you're speaking of, I met an awesome guy and we've talked every single day, pretty much all day for the past 4 years. We plan to meet sometime this year. I understand your feelings, and I think the best thing to do is to be straight with her and tell her what you're feeling. If she isn't clear of her intentions, it may be that she is unsure herself. Even though it was hard for me to do, I have told the guy I met how I felt and he was also unclear about his intentions. However, I brought up the situation a few more times, and we were both glad we talked it over, he told me he is as confused about his feelings as much as I am. But do you know the one thing we both realized? Our friendship was much stronger than anything that could possibly happen, even if it means one or both of us find someone else. We will always be best friends. Sorry about that whole personal story but I felt it was needed. What I'm trying to say is that it seems like she has found someone else that she likes and as much as that might hurt, she still likes you and wants to be friends. I know the feeling all too well, but I believe the best way to find out what is going on and to stop any feelings of worry or doubt you have is to be honest and ask her about it. If your friendship is strong enough, you won't lose her as a friend. She may just be confused and that's why she doesn't know how to answer you. Good Luck! I'm still trying to work that type of situation out myself, hope you keep us updated!

hmm... been there, done that. Wait for him to come to you to talk, if he doesn't, then he's not worth it. I know it's hard when you really want to talk to him, but I met a guy in another game, we leveled to 60 in WoW together, and are still in contact with each other. We're pretty much best friends. I've known him for 3 years and we're planning to meet sometime this year. He used to do the same thing to me when we got on with our lives and took a break from wow for awhile. But I realized something, sometimes guys are like kids(especially the ones that play online games lol) and just get really absorbed in playing stuff without realizing that they're ignoring you. My friend still does that sometimes, but I pretty much just tell him straight out how I'm feeling when he does that and he stops, so being honest with him helps too. I suggest you just wait it out, no matter how hard it is, if he's worth it, he will miss you and contact you out of game. There's no need to keep logging in when you don't feel like it just because you want to talk to him!

yeah that's exactly what I'm always worried about! I'm scared he's going to disappear from my life or find some other girl that lives close to him that he can actually spend time with. For some reason guys don't seem to worry about that as much or if they do, they don't show it! My situation is a little different though! We have never decided upon anything exclusive, so I always worry. He always has a non-chalant attitude about things even when I straight up asked him about a girl that he seemed to be getting friendly with! It made me really jealous, but after I talked it over with him, he told me that he just met her and that she was "strange and has a boyfriend." It made me feel a whole lot better and put my mind at ease. So maybe talking things over helps if you worry a whole lot. However, my only problem is that he thinks we will "always still be friends" even if he finds someone else he likes. And that can make a girl really crazy! lol so you're lucky you just have that to worry about!

lol this happens to me alllll the time! I thought I was the only one that feels that way. I think it's because you love him and you feel insecure and would like to know what he's doing. Sometimes your mind begins assuming things (I know mine does) and it makes you worried and angry and leaves you feeling like he just doesn't care, when in actuality, he could just be sleeping! That has happened to me lots of times! lol Guys are just clueless sometimes and don't think that girls need a lot of reminders that they care about them! It's just one of those things that guys do that makes us all without them even realizing it!