gloryoflove

Hi swingfox thankyou again for your reply! i just wanted to say that i understand your point about jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire and even if it's a really nice fire at that it's still not my style. I love to take things slow and progress from there i will take your advice and just be friends it's all i can do now and actuall all i want to do right now. Until we know eachother alot more. Thanks again for all your sound advice. All my love always gloryoflove

Top of the morning to ya my laddie, i must say your humour is wonderful and i absolutely love it. Just a wee bit of course lol. I just wanted to comment on your comment about tucking your kilt into your underwear lol As far as i know we don't wear underwear under our kilts! lmao This way it's easy access and provides air conditioning! Just teasing you and trying to put a smile on ur face. All my love gloryoflove- O'lionhearted Scotswoman Lassie

Hi Swingfox please reply my post i love your straight forward honest advise. Thanks so much i will be waiting to hear your reply. gloryoflove

Hi Swingfox and Regina i thankyou both for replying my situation. I've told my b/f that i don't love him and he knows this well, but for some reason he thinks he can make me love him and Regina i think you misunderstood me when i was trying to say it's my b/f that has asked me to marry him not the other man that i deeply love. So you see if only it was the other man it wouldn't be so hard to answer of course i would say yes i love him dearly and deeply but my b/f and i have nothing in common only our child and that's it. It could never work out with us i've tryed and he now continues to try to keep me from leaving he was so worried i would leave that he trys to force me to kiss him and holds my wrists tight and trys to make love with me. This is why i know i must leave this is not a man i want to spend my life with. Nor do i want him as a role model for my son. This other man that i love flirts with me but i'm unaware of his feelings i'm not sure if they are mutual or not. Do you suggest i tell him everything? I don't want to hurt him as he does have a good heart. It's just there is nothing left for him in mine. I told him i had dreams of this man that i love and i told him who it was so he does know how i feel about this man and yes he is very jealous but i will not live a lie nor will i use anyone for that matter. I always believe honesty is the best policy! Please help what should i do in this situation? waiting for your reply gloryoflove29

Top of the morning to all! I'm definitly not happy in my relationship it's over but i'm still living with this guy i'm working on finding my own place, anyway there is a four year old involved so it doesn't make matters easy for me. Although i do not love his father and there are no deep feelings for him anymore. We have grown apart and i must confess i'm in love with another man he is a friend of ours but not close friends i guess you could say we are aquaintances. I know we both feel this incredible attraction and i also know that the grass is not always greener on the other side. I've not seen this man for aleast a year and when i returned to see him, as aquaintances i realized my feelings are alot deeper for him and i'm trying really hard to hide this from my live in friend that still loves me. He has asked me to marry him three times now it's becoming everyday almost. I feel so much pressure because i don't ever intend to marry him at all, and i've told him this time and time again. But he doesn't seem to get it through his thick skull. I know he loves me and this is why he refuses to see that it will never be because he wishes it to be. This is really driving me crazy, i feel part of me has died inside my soul has been ripped out of me. All i want more than anything is to be with this man that i love so deeply within my heart , soul and mind. I have told him how i felt in so many ways never verbally because i feel it's wrong when i'm still living with someone. Please help me to understand what is going on here and how i should go about this. I realize i will only live once so why settle for someone that i'm not in love with to only make matters worse. I'd appreciate any responces thanks for caring! gloryoflove