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  1. Sorry for not telling you guys the outcome! The trip to Cambodia was brilliant. And I just chatted with the comic shop guy about Cambodia and places to stay, food to eat, and when I did get back, about if I'd tried out the recommendations. I didn't loose interest, but I guess some people just have that spot in your life, and that's the 'spot' they should stay at
  2. oh. this episode ended quite awhile ago. we talked. and that's it. so i decided for sanity, he'd just be that hummana humma-na guy @ the comic shop.
  3. I know *giddy grin/ sneaky smile* he told people about me. But that's it. He hasn't done anything, I haven't done anything. Though he gave this big hint about creme caramel. This is too hard, why can't he just be nice and ask me to go for an ice cream or something? heh
  4. But it can also be the same thing as why do the 'nice' guys go out with b*****s & leave the 'nice' girls alone (but use their shoulders to cry on about how horrid the B**** is) I think most are attracted by some element of excitement/ adventure/ confidence. And it just results a little differently. (makes sense? too early in the morning ;-) )
  5. As someone tall (6ft+) - it's a wonderful change to see someone taller (and even more to date one ;-) ) However, there's really no point in saying anything about the height! Us tall girls get so many comments about it in general- but like Aurian said - you could mention it later "oh I was attracted by your height, etc) Aurian- I agree! Why do the tall guys go after the really short girls???
  6. Ha. Thanks. I happened to have 5 minutes to run in on Saturday. He was talking to a couple of people & didn't say hi- but he eventually turned around and said "oh, this is the girl I was telling you about who's going to Cambodia!" (*whoo hooo* - he told someone about moi? Joy I'm getting ditzy ](*,) Kidding.) When they left, he started talking to me & I cut him off and said I had to run back to work & he said to write and I mumbled something while running out the door. Good move?
  7. i think i did something along those lines ages ago, and he just conveniently forgot about it. (same with me agreeing to be 1 of the people to share a cabin to go on the trans-siberian railway, which was pretty sucky) but yes! I might do the casual thing (and use the trip that he's so happy to recommend things about as an excuse!) *fingers crossed* it's all in the head, don't know if i'll actually do it though, like i said - it'd be horribly uncomfortable if i did something like that and he said "no"
  8. he's 10 years older, the age thing isn't a problem. Oh no - friends are the ones who set an ultimatum. Gosh if he set it I'd jump at the chance! LOL. And yes, I figured if another 20 years roll past, I might eventually get that coffee with him. I though I'd go to the shop since I said I'd pop by to ask him more things about my trip since he's pretty eager with the recommendations. And he says i met him at a club once ages ago (I can't remember and was only cringing and hoping I wasn't doing anything too weird. ignorance. pure bliss!) btw - i have recently got discounts, and he's knows exactly what I like (with the recommendations), but maybe he's just like that to regulars (I mean my dad was getting discounts and I never got any! What's up with that? LOL) I jnst have absolutely no idea how to ask him out though
  9. I've thought the guy from the comic shop is cute for ages, and recently found out he's single (well apparently recently from last May). I've known him for about 19 years (and he knows my dad & remembers me in my grade school uniform). Everytime I go in, I get all nervous talking to him, and run to the back of the shop, but lately we've started talking quite abit. He initiated adding me on some friendy-network thing & we email each other (thanks to my trip - he's happily dishing out advice) Friends of course (being friends) gave me an ultimatum to ask him out within a week, which I refuse to do. But actually I don't even know how to ask him out for coffee on the pretext that I want to get more info for my trip. Help! He's single, I'm single. But if I do anything weird I'd be too embarrassed to ever go back to the shop (19 years man - 19 years, I can't change comic shops now )
  10. Agreed, stop freaking out. Get a pregnancy test kit if you're really worried about pregnancy. And why's she wearing a tampon when she doesn't have a period anyway. Duuuh.
  11. To everyone who's listented to my rants on e-not-alone, I wanted to give a huge hug & thank you for all the help & advice you've given. NC & a forced break up? It hurt like hell when I didn't get to have my talk, and when it ended up being NC for awhile. But then you have to decide what you want to do right? Mope? or move on. Admittedly waking up in the morning, and falling asleep at night was hard because *he* was the first/last thing on my mind. So I deleted his number from my phone (and all those cute messages); went out for a movie (it was so casual, i really wouldn't consider it a date, but it was good to go out); and I joined the dragon boat team (at last, instead of spending the weekends *hoping* he'd be back & call) at last (tons of people, but I was about to keel over and pass out). Good thing though- he also got me so upset I started running. And by the time I 'bumped' into him online. I was fine. We spoke, I got to state my point calmly, he did too. Maybe I'll take it slow, maybe I'll keep him out of my life, but it's just good to have me back to normal.
  12. Absolutely true. Actually I find that since the 'dumper' takes the stand of not communicating, while you have all your screwy feelings, it makes it alot easier to move on (not immediately at least) 'cos when you're doing the stay in touch thing, there's usually some hope you'll get back together. Course if you're friends and it's a mutual decision, and you can laugh about it, then it's different
  13. Thank you so much everybody. It's been over a week, and i bumped into him online (so he didn't block me *lol* maybe i am paranoid) And I was definitely more collected when talking to him (of course he being a guy had the "I don't want to hurt you because I care about you") But I'm also feeling much stronger emotionally, to distance myself from him, and if he wants to go out for dinner/ drinks/ movie, that's great. If he doesn't, that's fine too, and we'll take it (i'll take it) very slowly, and see how it goes. But I won't tolerate being treated like a doormat. (plus I mean if you're 33 & a guy - get a grip on your emotions man!)
  14. 1) You really did get him upset 2) You're/ He's stringing him on 3) He really did get upset over nothing So . . . Can you give yourself 10 real reasons why you want to actually date this guy? (your situation really sounds so much like mine! except he hasn't called yet ;-) )
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