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Listen it is obvious he hasnt completely resolved all the issues with his past relationship. I also believe that it is a mistake for a woman to get with a man that cheated on his woman, with her, it simply means he is capable of this type of dishonesty and the probability of him repeating this is higher, however, this is your choice and i am not judging him. What i suggest is that you do what is best for you, if the best option for you is giving him an ultimatum then by all means, make yourself comfortable. You are his woman now and you do have that right

woah! i read all that ! Girl you have a good man ! dont let this one go! I am glad you found an answer! i was kinda hoping the story was going to end with u already solving it, but atleast we do have something to look forward to YOU GO GIRL!

well well where to start first off u make it seem like she is holding a gun to your head saying "marry me! marry me !" if it's no...... it's no ! makes no sense having a marriage where she is heart and soul in love with you, and you are heart and soul in love with your money ! Everyone is different, and it just obvious you are not compatible for marriage from what you have written! For even if you were going to marry her just for the sake of her feeling more secure......you already have the wrong attitude, you have already ended the marriage before it has begun, it's like you are expecting it to end, but marriage is suppose to be a lifetime commitment......... I think she made the right decision for her.....and you need to find someone who doesnt believe in marriage..........oh yeh and someone making as much money as you So more power to you, make that money for the government.....well unless u have kids.....*sigh* another child out of wedlock !

You are obviously a very intelligent woman. But we are all imperfect and make mistakes. Aside from the fact that this might affect you career and work performance........your very first mistake was feeding these feelings It is fine to be fond of someone, but constantly flirting, meeting, texting to each other in a very personal way is like playing with fire and dont u see you have lit a flame? You are questioning yourself because you know within yourself something isnt right i know you dont intend to get divorced now but you are just digging a hole for yourself, dont do it, dont cause heartache for yourselves, please get out before you fall in love, as humans we get attracted, but this can happen all the time it is just how u feed it, keep it professional, i know it excites you and a little excitement is fine but dont compromise what you believe is right, just for irrational emotions. you said it NOT me !

Ye i am 22 year old virgin and so what?? It is my choice and waiting for marriage is definitely an option if not aim ! and i am surely not ignorant, for even i have given sexually active people advice... you dont hear me bashing anyone for sleeping around (unless they are married or in a relationship), i give advice and try not to be bias, but obviously my morals would be different from a person who thinks casual sex is ok, and that is their choice! I am here NOT because i had a problem either, i wanted an opinion on something, it wasnt a relationship problem nor advice...... And whether you like it or not if u think letting kids think it is okay to have sex and sleep around casually, you should really exam yourself and look around at the amount of problem this has caused and can cause! However its not discomfort, its more like i would like someone to tell my teen who is having sex to wait give them positive encouragement......

CONGRATULATIONS on your new baby ! I Hope she will pull through with a speedy recovery ! and hope for the best!

ok come on a fetish is usually something odd i have met MANY people who for some reason have a fetish with urine peee on them, peee in thier mouth, watch you pee, touch your peee, eat you after you pee......you havent heard anything yet !

Congratualtions on waiting, make my heart so happy to know i am not alone I have the knowledge, and i am an 'experienced virgin'? i only got this concept from this site, i am highly sexual it is amazing i lasted this long, and i intend to be less explorative, but i am just one of those people that dont find ignorance to be bliss!! Paisely80, THANK YOU, i needed to hear that i get so horny sometimes i dont think i can wait, and then everyone else isnt a virgin i dont have much support and i pretty much almost wanting to give it, the irony is, it is the guy that i am intrested in who is encouraging me to wait because it is something i have always wanted and i wont want to live in regret anyway all said and done CONGRATUALTIONS again! it will be wonderful, you will be with her for the rest of your life so no need to rush, enjoy every moment, it only will come ONCE !

My friend with A cups always say: "Anything more than a mouthfull is a waste!"

When i fall in love completely, NOT just looks and personality, but i want to marry someone i can laugh with, sit and talk to, have a spiritual relationship with and so on Communication is important to me, i am a talker i cant say when i will know, but so far he is wonderful, however he is a man so i have my shotgun close by kidding!......... he is a gem! i will post a thread when i know if he is the one.....

I love it, definitely a compliment but one bad thing is if i am like really "sprung" for the guy, a hard member through his pants it will get me weak in the knees, i mean literally !

I have ADD with a comorbid factor: depression, and i have been there and i go there occasionally, i feel like i would be a hypocrite to critise you or tell you how selfish it is, but all i can say it just find ONE thing to live for, ONE thing to hold on to, its ok to cry, i use to schedule my crying session..... Anyway, my friend killed himself last year and it was hard for everyone, but we have to move on, your life is your gift, if you want to give it back it's your choice, fortunately they wont allow me to tell you different methods of doing it........ or i would hand it to you, many times i wish someone handed me a way out ! PLUS you dont wanna do it, if you did you wouldnt come here !

DONT STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING !!! PLEASE !! we need more men like you, teach youur friends honey, give classes ! you know alot of women should take the blame for how men treat women, because we allow it and we expect it, dont be fooled, you can be a gentleman and still have all the girls chasing you, nOt because you are nice means you are going to allow women to walk all over you, but treat your lady with respect and care and believe me you will feel better within yourself and the RIGHT one will APPRECIATE and RESPECT you!

Well i am 22, and i had goals to go to europe, i have a thing for german guys, i wanted to do my masters there, but i met this wonderful guy, he is so perfect and if it works out I WILL MARRY him. I will do this because i know i will never meet another guy with his personality, maybe i will get better looking, not to say he isnt good looking, but i would rather be treated like a queen all my life and be loved than have a guy who looks like a model but makes me miserable (well more than i already am!), it just so happens i met him nOw, and i refuse to allow anyone else to have him, if i want him!

i have 36 or 38 DDD and i think maybe i should get a reduction but guys seem to love i get alot of attention especially because they natural and they wont stop gowing and believe me i want them to ! But meet the right guy, u will be the Queen of his life !