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I can honestly say that it did nothing to me. I shoved it down deep and dont talk about it, and I have been able to move on with my life. I dont tell anyone, so no one thinks of me as different or fragile or messed up or anything, and it does not bother me at all. I moved on (fairly quickly) and didnt allow my experience of some drunk a-hole overpowering me to dent my life. Yeah it sucks to know that it could happen to anyone, but its assuring (to me at least) to know that I can go on without it effecting me. And I do and i will.
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is it bad to be in a relationship that involves alot of sex?
Drunk replied to SeaBisquit's topic in Relationship Advice
If you are feeling uneasy about it you should either talk to your boyfriend about it or see what his reaction would be to not having sex right away when you two see each other. My LDR is just like that (ending up in bed like 5 min. after he gets here) but one time we didnt have sex right away and my BF didnt get mad or annoyed or anything, and that kinda reinforced the fact that our relationship is based on more than just our great sex life. I feel comfortable having alot of sex and right away when we see each other, and that comfort feeling is the best evidence that my BF isnt using me! -
Yeah i agree with beec, start talking to him. A-you might be ableto find out whats going on and B- if he is cutting himself, you talkin to him will make him feel better. two birds with one stone
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I know what you mean by counslers and stuff not helping, they never seem do what they are supposed to do. I agree with luvingx...maybe this girl isnt the one for you. you are still young. and she doesnt seem very nice. One thing i can say for sure is that there is no way that the people around you would be better off without you, just due to the fact that you care enough to try and get help, whether it is from counslers or GF or us here at E, you have a heart that is worth its beat! My advice, stay off the cabinet meds (trust me, they will screw your liver up bad! i know from experience) tell your girl you dont appreciate her shruggin you off all the time, and maybe rethink the whole relationship (if she obviously doesnt care enough to try to help you, then you shouldnt want her help.) Oh yeah, and pull yourself outta the suicidal thoughts due to a GF phase, you will realize your self value much better if you do. Good Luck buddy
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hey, you said you posted a link with your music before...I was wondering if you could post it again, I'd love to hear it!!!
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Yeah i am in the same situation with my guy, and I think just letting him do it himself is best. I try to mention it every now and then just to keep his mind on the subject as much as possible, but I dont push it too hard at once. Maybe just say something like every few days or something
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I think its fine for a guy with a girlfriend to go to the stripclub. I actually went with my guy (now ex, but that has nothing to do with it) to the strip club cuz it was our friends bday present. Unless your guy is going all the time, i wouldnt worry about it. Most clubs you cant touch the girls. The way i see it is that they are watching a porno in 3~D. What you can do is tell him that he better come home to you afterwards and then you can show him why he is with you and not the strippers! Or you can go with him if your into that, it'll be like you guys are watching a porno together (could even spice things up!) But dont make him feel bad about going, that will just cause drama. Hope that helps!
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Dont even think your an idiot...you just made a mistake. Always learn from your mistakes. I was in the same situation awhile ago (even in debt and then having $800 in my savings! weird) and when I got to the point where I was happy with my life I realized that my ex didnt have control over me. He doesnt have control over you bc you changed your life around without him. And he is NOT happy, so dont think that. Just think this: he is not happy, you are, without him. dont email him anymore, that just throws extra drama in your life that doesnt need to be there. Congrats on moving on too!!
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The one, but we just fall in love too fast.
Drunk replied to seeuonrooftops's topic in Relationship Advice
I agree with the promise ring idea. Show your girl how much she means to you. From what you say it sounds like you guys are ready for that! Good Luck !! -
I do that too, its just our way of expressing ourselves. I dont think too much about it
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That would melt my heart!! Good plan man
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I agree, break up with him and stay broken up with him. Go NC and try not to think about him so you dont miss him.
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Congrats!!!!!
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Amazing girl...amazing time...need some amazing guidance
Drunk replied to 4GiveAnd4Get's topic in Dating Advice
I have to say just from my experience with my boyfriend (I had just gotten out of a really bad relationship before him) and how we hooked up, which is very similar to your situation, dont think about being a rebound. Yeah its a possibility, but from the sounds of it you guys really hit it off. Just from having such a good time with her and her having a good time with you, I;m sure she knows that you are better than the last guy. As for approaching the relationship...I say wait just a bit. Keep dating and hanging out, then you can really show her how good of a guy you are. Put it in her head "wow, if he is this great to date, I wonder..." ya know what I mean? Oh yeah, for valentines, if it were me, I would want you to show me that I am special. Dont make too big of a deal out of it, flowers and a stuffed animal or something ( If youre reading this babe, hint hint). Or you can make it really special and ask her to be officially yours that night. Congrats on finding a mate buddy, and hope all goes well -
Thats what I am scared of, him holding something back and not saying anything and then letting it build up
