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Thanks, You bring up some good points. She does have a father however he is never home and her parents ALWAYS fight and she gets sent to different houses of family members because of it. Her mothers not that much of a mother either so maybe that could be the problem. Still i hate to see her hurt like this...

Hey everyone, Recently this monday i broke up with My GF who i had been going out with only for 3 1/2 weeks. Ive been in alot of relationships before and This one wasnt working for variouse reasons...Already in that time she had kissed another guy and repeatetly told her friends about doubts she was having. So i decided it would be best to end it and move on...which I did. Now i get to school, and im a bad guy all of a sudden. All she does all day is cry cry cry, she doesnt go to classes, and talks to the guidence councelor all day. I feel like a you know what now because i hate doing that to people and i dont want to see her cry. Every class i get out of shes still waiting for me outside, Im not the kind of person who will just ignore her and be mean, so i talk to her and will walk to the next class with her but i dont put my arm around her, hold her, or kiss her as i did when we were going out. Should i be doing this? Is this a form of leading her on by just aknowledging her? Because i dont want to ignore her if shes outside of my class but should i be talking to her and everything if all she does all day is cry? Every Night on the computer she Instant Messages me saying sorry for all this and that and her profile says stuff like i cant loose you and all that. Im actually kind of freaked out...It was only 3 1/2 Weeks, Why is she getting SO upset? I mean i cant be THAT good of a guy =). I even seen her mother in school today i guess cause shes been talking to the Guidence councelor so much. She says this and that about love, but i mean comon...Ill be the first to admit, Im 16 Years old, I dont know nothing about love yet nor do i want to, im here to have fun right now! So my main question is do i keep talking to her and walking with her? Will this just upset her more? Any help will be greatly appreciated..>THANKS ALOT!!

Sounds to me like you Love your GF. This is because of how you keep saying your afraid some guy will take her away, which is understandable considering youve had a past relationship where a girlfriend has got with your best friend. The only thing really to do is trust her. If she loves you back then there is no way she will run off with some other guy. She obviously trusts you, so use it as kind of a test. If she loves you things will be fine, If the unlikely event was to happen that she ran off with another guy...then its better you know before you could have taken any further steps in your Relationship. Hope this helps a little bit

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Thats actually a really good idea, thanks for your time and great idea bud

Well she walks to school her house is close to it, i get there at about 7:10 and she gets there like 7:20...I take a bus to school

well she gets home late tonight so i wont have time, im hoping ill be able to talk to her tonight it will ease up things alot but she might be getting home too late

Hey everyone, I am 15 and hooked up with this girl ive liked for a little bit this weekend. This weekend was great, we talked alot, kissed alot, you name it. But she had to go for a trip to MA. The next time i see her will be in school, and im not exactly sure how to approach her. Usually im at school first, standing against a locker with a friend and she walks by and we say hi or smile, but now what should i do? Should i walk up to her or something? Its very stupid and i know it should come naturally im just a bit nervouse and dont want to look like an idiot. Anyones insight on this would be VERY much appreciated

My best advice would be to ask her a question that requires a long answer, something you can build on. Favorite movies and songs are all one word answers and will leave you wondering what to ask next. Ask them questions about their life for example, if they have a job...Where do you Work? Really do you like it there? Build off of your questions. A conversation of just question after question can get boring and repitent, Get more stuff to talk about through a question.

Hey mark, dont know how old you are but im 15, and the other night the same thing happened to me. Theres been this girl ive been seeing but nothing has ever gotten too seriouse. But the otherday we were hanging out in her backyard with a couple of friends and were really getting along great. Heres how things worked out for me: First off was just conversation, just talking getting along, As we talked though sometimes our eyes would connect and we would just stare at eachother and smile. Next was like little touches and feels, walking around with my arm around her or using the excuse of looking at her ring to hold her hand ....And then finally we were just sitting there talking and staring at eachother when we just kissed and took it from there. I say the move you should make are the little ones like i said, the arm around her, hugging her, those kinds of things. This way you can ease up the tension to that moment. A kiss is the greatest thing because its a good signal as to how much more you can do. Take it from there bud, hope i could help

Hey man, Im not as old as you and have not gotten as seriouse with a girl as you have to moved in with her. But take it from me regardless of age.. You never want to have to say "I love her but im not IN love with her" Its not something that you want to live the rest of your life thinking, like what if i did this or what if i did that, Take advantage of situations while your in the prime of your life, make decisions that will keep you happy. The point of life is to be happy, You want to spend your life with the person you love above all others, now if your current girlfriend seems to you like someone just to be with, i say go for her friend. BUT thats only if your in love with her, not just for sex or anything like that. In the end its your decision but thats my view on the situation. Good luck bud

I once had a similar problem that went like this: I liked this girl while she was going out with someone, we hung out, joked, said the I love yous while she was even going out with this guy. finally the day came when she broke up with him, so as we hung out we got more and more involved but after a bit she seemed to be distant. Always saying, o yeah i call you or well hang out, but we never do. The remedy that cleared up that mess for me was finding someone new to love. It was like a right hook from nowhere but i hardly ever think about the other girl anymore and to tell the truth i dont really think she cares. You should just tell him how you fell, tell him what you said in that post, That you really wish that something between you and him could have worked out, but you are tired of waiting and feel you should move on. Try and find someone else, i know its hard, but once it happens you will feel great trust me. Hope i helped you at least a little bit