Mr.Mister

My girlfriends nipples are smooth to the touch, unless she is horny, and then they definitely pop out. I don't like my nipples getting touched or licked on. It tickles me. But, my girlfriend loves to get hers sucked on. She'll even grab my head and push me on them harder. I love it.

I've heard from almost all my married friends that sex stops a couple years into a marriage. That's one of the reasons I'm scared of marriage. I've barely started to experience sexual things; I'm not ready for it to end. haha. It could be due to a lot of married couples having children a few years in and they stop having sex so they can sleep or whatever. haha I dunno.

I too have seen Christian websites for and against masturbation. Some say if you just masturbate and think about the feeling instead of someone naked or something, the lust isn't there and it's thereforeeee not sinning. But, some say all sex is forbidden until marriage and masturbation is just "sex with your hand," so it counts. Everyone sins from time to time and masturbation is one of the strongest addictions out there. So, just try to cut back on masturbating for God and if you give into the temptation to do it, just ask for forgiveness. God will understand.

I can't believe how many women on here have said how guys have said comments like "nice boobs" to them. That is harassment, and it's just plain disrespectful. If it happens at work or at school, it's against the law. I'm not sure about everywhere else, but it should be.

Thank you for your replies. I am especially grateful too all the girls that replied that have dealt with this problem, or are still dealing with it. When my girlfriend was around 13 she had an eating disorder. She started looking at model pictures constantly and she was very skinny. I didn't know her back then, but I'm seen some pictures of her at around 14 or 15 where she looks like a really young model. She is so beautiful, but I will love her no matter what she looks like. Her boobs in those pictures (obviously clothed.. don't think of me as a pervert or anything) looked like a decent size, but more proportional to her height. She's about 5'4" I think, and so having larger boobs is definitely noticeable. Well, in the past year, she has put on some weight. It's not really that big of a deal to me, but to her it's a TON. I understand where she's coming from since she used to be super skinny. But, she has to understand that she's not going to be "skinny" like she was before, since her eating disorder at the time was the main factor in her being that skinny. I try to boost her self-confidence as best I can, by telling her how beautiful I think she is and how much I love her no matter what and all sorts of things, but she never wants to listen to anyone but herself (because of what she sees in the mirror). (And, she still looks at those model pictures and gets tons of magazines with models in them, though I told her I don't like the idea of her looking at that stuff. Oh well.) She still lives at home, while going to school, so she is still on her parent's insurance. She's been to some therapists in the area before, but only the ones covered by their insurance, and I guess they aren't very good. I've taken some classes on psychology, so I know somewhat what they should at least be doing. One of the therapists she saw was mean to her and made her feel worse, so she got out of their quickly. She started going to see this really nice lady, that she enjoyed seeing, but she was more of a counselor than a therapist. I've found some really good sounding therapists in the area, but they aren't covered by their insurance, and her dad isn't going to "waste money" on something like that. As for clothing, she wears really big and baggy hooded sweatshirts often. Never anything skimpy ever. She doesn't want to be sexual at all, so she tries her best to hide everything. When we work out, she normally wears something more comfortable, but she holds her boobs most of the time and doesn't like doing any moves that may make her bounce or anything. I try to tell her she's lucky, since so many women want large breasts, and will even go through the trouble of getting implants to get them that big, but she finds that whole thing gross, since the only reason for that would be for sexual reasons or something. I think I'll mention something to her about those restrictive bras everyone keeps mentioning, but I think she wears sports bras a majority of the time already. Maybe she's just not wearing the right kind or has the wrong size. Anyway, I heard that wearing sports bras or tight restrictive bras all the time was bad and could hurt you. Is there any truth to that? I don't want her to have any pain because of them. Also, I've been working out with her, so we can both burn fat and gain muscle together. All I have to do is help encourage her to not eat so much junk food now. haha. She seems to have lowered her self-control since she has gained the weight. But, she is determined to lose it again, so that's a good thing! Thanks everyone again.

My girlfriend has really big boobs. She really hates having them, and is ashamed of them. She's always holding them or hiding them with books and things, because she's worried people are looking at them. I love her big boobs, as most guys would, but, she doesn't want people looking at her like that. Every time she plays a game which requires running or jumping, she has a hard time because she is clutching onto her boobs so as not to let people see them bounce. She doesn't want people to think sexually about her. She already has a problem in her head where she thinks she's flirting and making sexual passes at guys and girls, even though she is just walking or doing normal human things. And, she knows people look at her boobs when she walks by and she wants to not be thought of in that way. What should I tell her to calm her down? Also, how can she deal with having such large boobs, besides breast reduction?

Tell him to eat pineapple. I heard that makes it taste better, though I don't know. Also, the best suggestion is from my old roommate. He used to buy flavored lube so his girlfriend could go down on him without having to taste anything bad. Just find a flavor you'll enjoy and suggest it.

I'm probably the only guy that is responding to this, but my girlfriend definitely changes around and during her period. When she's actually on her period, she likes to annoy me on purpose. And then, when she notices I'm annoyed, she apologizes and gets kinda sad for being annoying. She also gets worried about things more easily. I can tell she's on her period just by the way she acts, so I treat her more gently then and I forgive her for how she acts. It's amazing how womens bodies are affected by things like this. Chocolate tastes good, but I've never felt anything when eating it. It would have to be literally orgasmic to be even as good as sex, and even then, it wouldn't be better.

No, it's not like that. She just thinks she's going to get sick by the germs in the mouth. Plus, saliva = spit and spit is gross. If you spit and looked at it and touched it, you might be grossed out by it too. I think she thinks about it too much when she is kissing, rather than focusing on the kissing. She just thinks about how sticky and slimey and gross people's spit is, and so she thinks about that when kissing, rather than thinking about how great it feels to be kissing.

My girlfriend doesn't like to makeout with me because she doesn't like saliva. I think she is making a big deal out of nothing, but she thinks it's slimey and gross. Maybe she is thinking too much about it having germs in it or something, but I really don't think it's a big deal at all. Does anyone have any tips for what I can do to get her to relax about saliva and just enjoy making out?

I like the Trojan Her Pleasure condoms, since they are very thin so it almost feels like your not wearing one, and it supposedly helps with "her pleasure" too, haha, but she never complain with any of the different kinds we have tried in the past, so I don't know.

For me, I count calories, and I use Diet Power to log it all. There are a ton of different programs that help you diet, so maybe you should check into getting one of them. I also would say eating better doesn't help too much unless you are exercising. Just a little walk around the block may mean the difference between going down a bit in weight and staying the same. Also, the "Special K" diet (as advertised on tv) seems to work well. They say an inch of your waist in 2 weeks, by replacing two meals a day with two bowls of Special K. I love cereal, and Special K isn't bad. It works with pretty much any cereal, but stay away from ones with lots of sugars and things. I love Cheerios and so I replace meals with that all the time. It helps. Total is probably the best one to do it with, since it has even more nutrients and things than Special K, but I don't really like the taste of it. Just some ideas. Good luck.

All I ever want is sex and video games. I know how to cook though. If he doesn't cook, maybe food and sex would work haha. Guys are so simple.

Giving up food all together wasn't the question. I could give up delicious-tasting foods for sex any day haha. Heck, I'm already used to eating bland food, since, growing up, my parents never used any good spices in their food (my mom is allergic to most spices). haha. I mostly eat food for sustenance anyway; there are some foods I love to eat, but I don't eat them very often, since they are normally not very healthy for me. Also, I rarely eat desserts, since they are just extra calories that don't have any health benefit.

Exactly. There are some foods I love, but they are in no way better than sex!