ClandestineMonk

I've had relationships that were just me getting sexed. I would typically not hang out much with the girl unless I wanted sex. The "date" would be: Lead up to sex, the sex itself, then getting out of her presense ASAP.

Thanks Amazone, In fact, I have set my phone to send her calls straight to voicemail. I did this for two reasons: 1) To give me time to decide how to respond, and 2) to prevent her calling me "just because" - if she has anything real to say then she can leave it in a message or ask me to call her back.

I think that even if he did go it's a stripper for chrissakes - entertainment - and hardly a threat to your relationship. I doubt he'd take a lapdance because, I think most men respect their partners enough not to cross that line. My g/f went off to a hen-night a few months back and they had a fireman stripper who did the whole bit and she even put some money in his trunks. Do I care? Not even! She had a great night and the girls laughed about it for days afterwards. How can that be harmful? You need to chill out on this issue.

Je n'ai jamais essayé leur pti déj mais le soir ils font un bon club sandwhich mais il faut eviter leur salade... pas terrible!

haha.... Café Buci... I know it well - but at this time of the year populated entirely by American tourists! I'm normally found at Le Fumoir just next to the Louvre.

My g/f of 7 months wants a "break" for whatever reasons (not really important, is it?) I have deleted her from my mobile phone and have set it so that her calls would go straight to voicemail. I have also removed and blocked her from MSN. However, I know her well enough to know that within a few weeks she will leave a message or send an email. My question is how to react to this? Do I just not respond? Isn't that incredibly rude, or does it depend on the content of the message?

Javar, I just want to thank you for this journal. I am entering reactive NC with my g/f as things have gone awry in the last few weeks. Reading your posts is giving me a good heads up of the things that I am likely to experience. I wish you all the best! -Rich