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  1. Smile_83
    Hang in there!!! It gets better. I personally think that as bad as it sounds she's using you. She wants to be sure that after she's done with parties and does what she wants you'll take her back. You can do better!! You deserve someone who appreciates you.
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    Everything else is going well.
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    I met his sister before she left for another country, and I pretty much met all of his friends.
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    No he never refused, he used many excuses before. I was very pushy at first, but we talked calmly about it a couple of times, and he asked for a little more time. His family left for another country about 5 months ago, and he's coping with that, his only family are two of his best friends. I just feel like I am in the middle of it all because my family can be pretty pushy, wanting to meet him, and I feel stuck in the middle.
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    I have been with my bf for a little over six months. I am really close to my family, and I want my bf to get to know them them. He is scared to meet them. He ran into them before, and they had a conversation but he says that in the past he had bad experiences with families, and he's afraid to take the step to have dinner with my family for example. I have a pretty big family, and there is a language barrier. I live with my parents, 3 siblings and a grandma. Is there a way to encourage him to meet them. Does it sound reasonable that I want him to get to know them? Thank you for all of the responses.
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    You should never let anyone make you feel not pretty or insecure about yourself. You are a beautiful, smart and talented woman, and you should know that even without the compliments. Yes compliments are wonderful, but if you don't feel beautiful all the compliments in the world will not make you feel pretty. I think in this situation it's important to talk. Tell him that he’s hurting you with the compliments he gives her. It seems like she was manipulative, and still manages to manipulate him even now. How long have you too been together? Maybe he just needs more time to get over her, and be able to let the love grow that you two share.
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    I think that you should talk to each other. Can your relationship really survive another "cheating"? If he can’t forgive you for doing this, will you be able to forgive him? Deep down inside do you really believe that once he gets even he will change, and be the father to your child whom he should have been in the first place? If you believe in that then that's wonderful, however as much as you don't want to hear that, it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. I think it's wonderful that you're putting your kids first, but should you and your child share a home with someone who neglects you? Keep in mind these are just opinions, you should look deep inside you for an answer; I just feel that maybe marriage counseling might help? Wishing you the best of luck, this truly is a tough situation.
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    I think you're doing the right thing. It will most likely be very painful at first, and she will always be a part of you, but you should cherish the good memories you had with her, and put this behind you. Don’t' question yourself about breaking it off, sometimes we don't realize what we've had and maybe she will realize that later on, but it might be too late. Hang in there you will be fine. Just take it day by day and it will get easier.
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    Hi Yvette, I completely understand you, to be honest I have been in your situation before, more than once. The first thing that is the hardest to admit is that you might have fallen in love with the "idea of him" since the relationship is an online relationship. Yes you have spoken with the family, you know pretty much everything about him, but once you take an online relationship into real life, it almost becomes a new relationship. You must follow your feelings. If you feel that your relationship deserves a chance that give it a chance, because you never know what will happen in the future, but keep in mind if you are not really happy, by putting more work into the relationship will not make you happy. Each relationship needs a balance. Good luck, follow your instincts, never let other influence you into making a decision you might later regret.
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    For me it's little things my boyfriend does that shows me that he loves me, for example, calling me just to say that he loves me or he misses me, even if he's extra busy and could only talk to me for a couple of minutes. You have to see what the response is like, I make sure to let him know that I like it when he does the little things.
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    Age doesn't matter... My sister was married to someone after an 8 year relationship, he cheated on her, abused her and about six months after the split (she was 24 at the time) she met a man she's been married to for almost 5 years, and they couldn't be happier together.
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    I personally don't think it matters who says I love you first, just as long as the person saying I love you understands that the words may not be repeated to them at the same time.
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    I think you should calmly talk to your husband, tell him things from your perspective, however be realistic in your expectations as well. Good Luck.
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    I personally think it's no big deal, it's just a wallpaper. Don't take it personally.
  15. Smile_83
    I think that you deserve a lot better. There are women out there who appreciate nice guys. Keep your head up. Good Luck.
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