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  1. Pkittie
    One thing we forget when the world seems to be coming to an end..."This too shall pass" And one more thing "The best helping hand is at the end of your own arm"
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    Hi Blazer, Gosh you touched a chord in my heart...Talk to us at ENA and we are here for you. I am sailing in te same boat as you. It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all....Keep the faith!! You can't appreciate light until you have seen darkness...Keep going through life & you will get your answers....
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    It was so nice to read your posts....some of us are longing for love like this in our lives... Hope we all find & are able to sustain this care...
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    Hi Survival, To each his own...I'm personally not a fan of ppl who treat sex casually..something intimate as that is not just fun and games. I can totally relate to you...I'm an Indian gal so mebbe raised in a conservative environment. So I think we should all be true to ourselves and find someone who is more in tune with our values. I met an Indian guy thro a matrimonial website who is raised here in the US. on our second date he tried to kiss me, being shy I turned my face. After that we came home. He told me to e mail him back which I did but he never replied. The way I look at it is some ppl r looking for easy sex. Ppl who value emotions, and genuine lov will not lay so much stress on the physical stuff. Be comfy in your skin & be proud to be who you are...ppl who r easy in bed will be very comfy walking out on you as well is my humble opinion....
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    So do you think a guy if he poses shirtless for a pic on a public profile is normal? it does not mean he's flauting his body & asking for attention...gals? I sent a msg thro friendster...he didn't reply...but he had only asked me to mail him back at the end of the date which I didn't do. so U still think i shud wait for him to initiate any kinda contact...ok...man it's so hard to figure out dating rules and how to go about it...
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    I live in Fremont, CA. No this guy did not push me into kissing. we are really attracted to each other and it's evident. But I wouldn't act on it & he probably did. ONCE I turned my face as he touched my lips he did not push me in anyway....We were already hugging a that time..I'm very shy & second date is too soon to get cosy. Plus we spent hours together on both dates. But tell me if a guy is shirtless on his friendster profile...does it mean he's looking 4 easy sex? I really liked him, somehow am very very confused...he's very touchy feely he'll always put his arm around me...but I see more affection. He also came accross as reserved & quiet in someways. I sent him a msg saying nudity is prohibited on Friendster...thro my profile, never got a reply. He told me at the end of the date that I should e mail him but I only send this message through Friendster. Should I forget about him or mail him back....I'm confused...just don't want to be hurt in anyway...
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    I came to the US 6 yrs back as a happyily married woman...today I only have bitterness and sadness left. My ex hubby left...two yrs later I met somebody who broke my heart & went thro the terrible pain of that. One after other I only come accross guys who are not looking for love. I'm so very tired...each night I cry & go to sleep. No family in the US I am beginning to lose it...but ya I feel I have to conquer it all. These jerks don't deserve a thought......I will not let my guard down. Sat eve I met a guy who I really liked. Sun I met him again & he was all touchy feely & tried to kiss me. I turned my face, didn't wanna go beyond hugging. Is this the dating norm in US? I looked in Friendster, saw his profile. One pic was him felxing his muscles without his shirt. I was SHOCKED...probably must be looking for fun. He's 33 & raised here. I sent him a msg saying nudity is prohibited on Friendster...thro my profile, never got a reply. I am still groping in the dark...how to find my way thro this maze of darkness.....HELP
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    Hi guys, I totally relate to you ppl. I broke up with my ex two yrs back & since then no kissing hugging in my life. I'll turn 32 very soon. I'm losing it...never had neven been in casual relationships...but wonedring if lov will ever come my way...I have no family in the US...have few frens but I can't go around hugging these gals...I met a guy this sat & sun we met again. He gave me a hug at the end of the date. It felst soooooo nice but I felt shy & withdrew as he was about to kiss me. I'm so scared of getting hurt. Looks like most guys don't have that cuddling need...I guess for now I'll have to hug my huge teddy bear and sleep. Loneliness is no good...almost feels like a disease...it's surprising how many ppl r single & alone now in their 30s and 40s...and 50s...Let's hope & pray that life also brings love along the way...
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    Blender......U r so sweet, I was REALLY touched by your reply.....I have not been dating anybody since two yrs...I am very lonely at times...I am working on myself but all of us want lov at the end of the day...I'm going to turn 32 very soon. and all my life I have only given in friendships, relationships but have always been dumped...I read a lot, don't date around and try cultivating hobbies. Lost my job last month..I have no family here..most ppl r so busy in their own lives...i dunnow hat to look forward to...
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    I came to the US 6 yrs back as a happyily married woman...today I only have bitterness and sadness left. My ex hubby left...two yrs later I met somebody who broke my heart & went thro the terrible pain of that. One after other I only come accross guys who are not looking for love. I'm so very tired...each night I cry & go to sleep. No family in the US I am beginning to lose it...but ya I feel I have to conquer it all. These jerks don't deserve a thought......I will not let my guard down. Sat eve I met a guy who I really liked. Sun I met him again & he was all touchy feely & tried to kiss me. I turned my face, didn't wanna go beyond hugging. Is this the dating norm in US? I looked in Friendster, saw his profile. One pic was him felxing his muscles without his shirt. I was SHOCKED...probably must be looking for fun. He's 33 & raised here. I sent him a msg saying nudity is prohibited on Friendster...thro my profile, never got a reply. I am still groping in the dark...how to find my way thro this maze of darkness.....HELP
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    Guys reading your post made me feel so sad....I came to the US 6 yrs back as a happyily married woman...today I only have bitterness and sadness left. My ex hubby left...two yrs later I met somebody who broke my heart & went thro the terrible pain of that. One after other I only come accross guys who are not looking for love. I'm so very tired...each night I cry & go to sleep. No family in the US I am beginning to lose it...but ya I feel I have to conquer it all. These jerks don't deserve a thought......I will not let my guard down. Sat eve I met a guy who I really liked. Sun I met him again & he was all touchy feely & tried to kiss me. I turned my face, didn't wanna go beyond hugging. Is this the dating norm in US? I looked in Friendster, saw his profile. One pic was him felxing his muscles without his shirt. I was SHOCKED...probably must be looking for fun. He's 33 & raised here. I sent him a msg saying nudity is prohibited on Friendster...thro my profile, never got a reply. I am still groping in the dark...how to find my way thro this maze of darkness.....HELP
  12. Pkittie
    I know exactly how you feel. I am not over my ex bf. We broke up in may2005 and he back back in nov 2005 saying sorry not wanting to get together. we tried to be frens but I cudn't handle it. Finally he left 4 India in may 2006. Since then I have been missing him. some days are good somedays are awful. When you REALLY like someone it's very hard to get over them. I sent him an e card on his b'day & broke months of NC...we chatted for 10 min but bottomline is that when there is no love in our lives we tend to remember our past and it's perfectly normal. I sleep in my bed & wonder when when when will I get him out of my system...whenever I watch emotional movies I'm a complete mess...
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    I badly need a hug everyday...Life sucks....no love...my family is back in India and today at Borders I bumped into my ex hubby. It felt so sad seeing him with his wife...though it;s been 4 yrs but I still feel hollow. Added to it my ex bf's b'day is coming up on 25th...Feb hasn't been the best month 4 me.. got laid off on 1st..
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    Not able to get over my ex, need advise.... ( 1 2) Poochie Here is the thread to the conversation...
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    Hi Dave, I have not even chatted with my ex bf whos in India since last oct. he send me a x'mas wish & I told him that I can't handle being frens...his b'day is on 25th feb .I'm itching to send him an e card. Plz advise... Poochie
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