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  1. I also will add in my 2 cents.. I was a virgin up until weeks ago. I agree with the not volunteer'ing information thing. It is very realistic to think that a girl will be put off by your inexperience. If she asks, be honest and tell her, but dont dwell on it at all, move on quickly and smoothly. In my experience i actually find that most girls wont even ask. And i can understand. With me, if i meet a girl its "dont ask, dont tell" because me being a virgin or not, it doesnt turn me on knowing shes had previous sexual experience.
  2. "So I guess this is Good-Bye..."
  3. Thanks for the words guys haha, someguy i appreciate your thoughts, sorry if i came off ungreatful for your response.
  4. Well first nobody knows my worries accept me. And i dont have any reason to believe shes talking to other guys.. I think thats why its called paranoia. Also im not really a shy guy either. Im shy only in big groups of people i dont know.. Are you thinking that cause she made the first move? I just really like that is all, i would have done it sooner or later myself. Sensitive? Sure, but not overly. Im one of the inbetweeners, not a jerk,not a suck. Ive never really thought i jumped from person to person. Since there are months to years inbetween my relationships. And I take addiquate time getting to know someone before i meet them and date them.. Im also not afraid of being single.. Im quite used to it. And if you must know, im a virgin. Ive been cheated on the one time i mentioned and thats it. Not trying to be mean, but your way off base.. I think maybe i didnt make the point of this clear or something, but either way i feel like an idiot now. Maybe thats a good thing? Im probably worrying way to much here, i just need to settle down and enjoy the ride while its still good. People can ignore this thread, im feeling like the subject matter is dumb anyways.
  5. Thats absured. I think he must have an over-protective mother. I would not ever, EVER let anyone, ESPEACIALLY my mom, do something like calling my ex and attack her. That shocks me really. Immature much?
  6. Or atleast i think thats what it is. How does one (me) go from this To feeling like junk. My past two relationships sucked so bad for me i think its twisted my brain. I can't just be happy about my new girlfriend. I sit here and think about how soon it feels like its going to end. I wonder if she talks to other guys who have a more then friendly intrest in her. My biggest fear is being left for another guy. My last relationship went like this: Feeling great, were comfrotable with eachother, things are going great. Until day 4 she bails. "I still like you but i just dont want to date anyone". That screwed with my head good, just cause i had no reason to get over her. But turns out she just left me to get heartbroken by another guy. My one before that i was cheated on. I think i have a huge insecurity problem right now, but just when it comes to being in a relationship. How do you combat that? I love the feeling of having a new girl -- when im single. Then things go official and im just sitting here, in depression, waiting for the heartbreak. What the hell.
  7. Lol im still all gitty when i think about it. I infact wouldnt mind it at all if a girl asked ME out. I totally think its cool for girls to go for what they want. I totally agree i love girls that make the first or ANY move. I also agree it rocks if girls even help a guy make a move.. Hard to explain but im sure you know what i mean. When she layed that awesome kiss on my it just blows down the wall, and it takes SO much pressure off me, and its so much easier making moves after that too. This makes me really happy for mostly the reason ive never had a girl that would do a move at all. Not the first, not the last. So its an awesome, and very welcomed change. Teehehehehee. My girl rocks.
  8. I LOVE GIRLS THAT MAKE THE FIRST MOVE. Love it. Theres something so sexy about a girl who will come out and take what she wants, and not just sit back and be shy. LOVE IT. My speacial lady as of recently surprised me with this situation today. Im so impressed. She actually apologized for the single, nice, warm kiss she took from me, i said "..dont be sorry, i love that you did that!" Love it. More girls need to do this.
  9. Death comes wether you want it to or not. Stressing about it is just going to make it come faster. Live everyday to its fullest and dont think about it. Plus you're both young, death isnt till a long time away.
  10. The kid stole a car, ditched you at a party, etc. He's self centered. Dont be caught up in the wrong crowd. "He does stupid stuff;; Just dont do it too" The only way not to get introuble in this instance would be to stay away. If your hanging out with people who just b&e'd a home, and they get caught and your with them, cops are most likely going to take you down too. You may not get charged but your not gonna have a very fun night. My opinion would to be just to stay away. Also-- Who the f*ck would steal a car for personal use?? Almost sounds like hes trying to make a reputation for himself, sounds like a lie. Either way, distance yourself.
  11. I feel the same way. I had my first gf at 16, then was single for 2 years, had another girlfriend at 18, and basically single for another year have had a few girls i was dating for a couple days or weeks since then but nothings worked out. Im 19.5 now. During my past years of sigleness i hadnt a care in the world. I didnt mind being single. It was so easy in highschool. Now i feel so empty. Im dying to share some time with someone. The hardest part of being single is sitting at my buddies house when were all just hanging out, i wish i had someone there to put my arm around. Another hard thing about single is not being able to share birthdays and christmas together with someone. Those times were you can show that person that you think enough of them to want to make them smile, and spend time with them and family (theres or yours.). Yupp, im feeling pretty alone right now. All i do is work and worry about money. I occasionally hang out with my buddy. who works opposite schedule and has a girlfriend. Having someone else gives me some form of relief. Everything in life can be fighting you (family, money, work, the future) but at the end of the night you still have that girl who listens and understands, or can just lay with you. Fricking James Blunt makes my emotions poor out faster then alchohol. Never before have i wanted someone to just have a long relationship with (not forever but for a substantial amount of time, enough to make you want to be single again maybe?). and all the girls ive found lately just cant commit. The stereotype that all girls can and want to commit is BS.
  12. I would have to agree with Kevin on some things. I have gone through the same emotions he is. I know he asked for an honest opinion but "I dont like scronny guys." is hardly an opinion. If your going to be out-right insulting, atleast back it up with some reason. We all have types, but like most(i think?) i will throw my "type" out the window if someone that attracts me doesnt quite fit it. If you're a girl who takes one look at a guy, and bases an opinion on him before youve even met him, shame on you. Wether their skinny or 'roided muscle mans, they still have a personality that could attract you. Like some are saying, including me, work on your confidence, and personality. Your hieght and weight shouldnt be a factor.
  13. Im a skinny/lean guy. You know, sometimes i look at myself and see myself in a skinny way and feel a little embarrassed. The fact of the matter is, when i take off my shirt, i look just a decent as any other toned guy, just on a smaller scale. I have a job that keeps my fit, and has put muscle on me, am i still skinny? yupp, and i still get comments on it too. My nickname at work is bones. If you work out, and dont fold like a stick when you stub your toe, it doesnt matter. Recently ive been meeting tones of girls, forget the fact that your skinny, when you around girls be flattering, and funny. Act confident (keep your chest up and out, look at girls in the eyes when talking to them). Act upbeat. My date last night started with a girl i didnt know at all, we played pool with my buddy and his gf. The night ended with us on my couch snuggling and watching tv. Bring up the fact your skinny yourself. Make jokes about it, show (or act) like you dont care, like its not a big deal. Because being skinny may hold you back at first, but once a girl gets to know you, the size of your arms is meaningless (atleast with the girls that are worth your time). I also look wayyy young for my age, teamed up with my leaness, im an underdogg, but confidence in who i am is key. I treat girls good, i joke with them and tease. I get ragged on cause im a virgin, but i wouldnt want it any other way. Id rather be a decent person and respect myself and my other, instead of a sex-driven, sex first, relationship later individual.
  14. If your both only interested in eachother because you miss eachother... Seems like a waste of time. Go to the party, put a smile on her face, surprise her. Relationships are sometimes about making the other person happy. Do it.
  15. great advice guys, keep it coming. Its actually really helping a lot.
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