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  1. Viper62382
    What are you feeling now? How are you handling the situation? Do you feel OK with NC for now? Dont forget to write out what you feel here before attempting any contact.
  2. Viper62382
    best of luck. Dont forget faith in God!!
  3. Viper62382
    It could be probing, it could be catching up. It's too early to tell, just be you and if you are interested in getting back with her, dont let the small talk last for too long. Few days of catch up is fine, then the rest is up to you.
  4. Viper62382
    This is the best piece of advise you can understand. Read this enough till it sinks into your mind:
  5. Viper62382
    Yes, thank you for the thread and posts. I am trying to apply it to myself. But my head hurts alot right now. Ive already used up all my focusing for a lifetime.
  6. Viper62382
    I am purchasing it now.
  7. Viper62382
    Very good insight. Hey SS, did you ever do any NC with her? Or did you maintain contact throughout the ordeal?
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    I think planning to do something like that is playing with major fire.
  9. Viper62382
    What do you think would have happened had you not emailed her? And do you think that was the best thing to do to settle it? Do you want her back, or are you truly letting go for good?
  10. Viper62382
    Indeed. It is naked and double edged.
  11. Viper62382
    Excellent advise^ couldnt have said it better myself
  12. Viper62382
    I wish I lived near my ex like I used to accross the street. We wouldn't be broken up thats for sure.
  13. Viper62382
    If you dont want a commited long term relationship with her, and it doesnt bother you THAT much, then you can continue with whatever is between you both, but if you are looking for more with her one day, you need to tell her the truth about how you feel, see her reaction, and give both of you time apart through NC. Its really the only way to go if you truly have feelings for her or one another.
  14. Viper62382
    Take the advise of everyone else. Its better now then later. You dont want to deny that this could be potentially disastrous. You can always sit down and have a good talk to her about it. If its an immaturity thing, maybe with time she will grow to love that about you. But if she really means it, and it is killing the chemistry she has for you, then take a step back and look at the situation before you get hurt later on.
  15. Viper62382
    Do you want things to work out between the two of you? If so, I think you both should take some time to heal, and when you both feel a lil better to contact one another again.
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