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i actually did ask him if he wanted to do something later in the week and he said he thought that'd be great... he's a professional baseball scout for the yankees and worked as a college batting coach before that so he wants to take me to a batting cage and work on my swing... lol... ought to be an interesting second date. i had just noticed that he wasn't calling as much... had no idea whether or not that was the norm with guys...

So I went out with a guy the other night & it was great! He brought me a gorgeous flower arrangement, opened doors, we had dinner... talked for hours... We had a great time. He's called a few times since we went out, but not nearly as much as he did before we went out on our first date. Guys, is this normal?

haha... i know i do! as for toys being better than the real thing... depends on who you're going to be with & what you're using while you're there.

personally, i would not be with a man that spent his time and money lusting over another woman. i would rather be alone. if it is a problem, however, you have the right to ask. if he says no, i suppose you know where his priorities are...

the quickest way (but one of the most unhealthy) is fasting... i lost 7 pounds in 3 days once... but i did it for religious reasons... and it takes a great amount of discipline to fast. you should try one of the aforementioned diets. something along those lines would work.

you have nothing to worry about. let me tell you something... i am 23 years old and i rarely date men my age... mostly men in their early to mid thirties or late twenties... age is just a number, sweetheart... truly, it is... where women are concerned, just keep in mind that you only need one - as long as she's the right one.

Beec, that is excellent advice... and omayra, you should definitely do this! a woman that can make, maintain and control eye contact with a man exudes confidence... and most men love that! start simple.... go for it!

yeah... back off a little... and don't scrutinize so much... lol... you'll be fine... she seems very social... i would encourage you to be the same way! but with other people...

if you are unclear about the character of a man, look at his friends...

when a woman is a virgin, sexual stimulation is wonderful... in part because she doesn't really know what she's missing so every new step is an adventure... but ensure you don't move too far, too fast. my guess is that she is just sore... maybe try her on oral or clitoral stimulators (i always recommend a pocket rocket) before you take the big plunge... it will help her body to naturally lubricate itself... i am being perfectly honest, here... most women find their 'first time' to be painful and a bit awkward... because they're nervous and scared... and it kills arousal... and in turn you have the pain and the awkwardness... just take whatever steps necessary to make her as comfortable as possible. good luck!

no surprises there... most men are into lesbian action... i was in a situation like that myself... my bf at the time wanted a menage trois with another woman and i had no desire to do it... it caused friction up until i talked with him about it... he settled for porn. problem solved.

Okay... so there's an older man at work that i am incredibly attracted to... He's 12 years older and policy states that I am not allowed to date him, but we exchange e-mails with one another all day, every day at work... He's gorgeous, funny, intelligent... What's not to like? But for some reason... He will not make the first move! Or maybe I just haven't been as direct with him as I need to be... Should I approach him or let the flirting continue and see where it leads? Someone please help!

nothing wrong with a little dirty talk... i am all about that... if you are nervous, communicate that to your partner... ask him if it's something he would be interested in trying... for a lot of ppl, it heightens the sexual experience and could open doors to a lot of other ones... good luck!

you may call your partner experienced, but experience does not always equal exceptional technique... if it's not doing anything for you, you gotta let him know...

i couldn't comment on what my first time was like... i was unconscious and raped... however, from what i can guage, most people feel a little let down the first time... there's generally no burst of orgasmic ecstasy, but don't be disappointed! what degree of vaginal penetration you've experienced prior to having sex (i.e. tampons, dildo... even having had a pelvic exam, etc etc) will have a great deal to do with how quickly you acclimate to being intimate with a man... trust me! it gets better... eventually, the natural lubrication, the comfort, the ease and the want to do it again and again will come... just give yourself time. i would encourage you to, if you are not using birth control, at least use condoms with nonoxynol-9 (spermicide) or even a combination of both... you are 15 and do not need the burden of an unexpected child or disease... good luck & let us know how it turns out for you!