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Ellie56

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  1. I wish i knew whats happened ! iv known him for years but a few years ago decided to go our seperate ways as we have tried to work things out and it works better as friends or so i thought, its not been a brilliant relationship over the years but we do get on as friends and talk daily about most things , we had a big fallout in march over something i said and he stopped talking for a few months , but in june we spoke and started seeing each other as friends with benefits, he said he cant give me anything more , fast forward 3 weeks ago he said his jacket had a rip in it and blamed me , this isnt the first time hes accused me of damaging his stuff {which iv never done} anyway we got past that and all was ok i saw him the saturday and things were ok , we spoke as usual the following days , then nothing since, no calls, no messages and no answering my calls ect, i dont know whats going on , he usually says if he doesnt want to continue , so im baffled .. iv given up asking . But its bugging me..
  2. Im not achieving anything by staying friends with him as the whole thing stresses me out when we do talk lately when hes ready he can be a horrible person..Maybe im just used to him being in my life or my self worth is on the floor.. Outside of him iv got good family and a good life..So he needs to go..
  3. No, i do text him more than he does me but he does all the calling..The bitterness is the cheating and lies and ignoring me at times.. And his involvement with his ex wife ,the list is endless.
  4. I thought afater a year of being apart we could be friends.. The relationship was toxic but we did have some good times over the years ..{ known him 26 years } And yes we have been back and forth ..We have a lot of history together and recently his mum was diagnosed with dementia and its getting worse so we stayed in touch mainly because of this but have kept our distance otherwise, im still bitter towards him cos of what he did in the past and this still comes up when we talk sometimes.. Anyway i went on holiday 2 weeks ago and he didnt say have a safe or nice holiday so when i returned we chatted and he had a go at me because i didnt ask about his mum or as he put it whats going on in his world, he was rude and said i was self centred and to get off his phone.. So clearly it seems we cant be friends...Seems if its not about him then he doesnt want to know..
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