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yesterday wouldve been our 2 years and 6 months. ..... we only lasted 2 years and 2 months you've moved on and iam happy for you, i just got a few more months of healing then i know im really over you.... i admit i had a setback tonight i think my mind subconciously new it was our anniversary. but you know what our memories are so bad that i wonder how the hell i lasted so long with you??? i guess i kept looking at your good side... but in the end, im getting stronger everyday doing the things i like without you. ive lived without you for 25 years, i can live without you forever lol. i know you can too. all the best!!!

well i guess you have made it official that you really have moved on.... your facebook page says it all. You two look good together and I judged him wrong. He seems like a decent guy and with style. I guess you did move up from me...... he seems alot more sure of himself and has the body you wanted. Well iam happy for you, thats probably why i cant cry over it badly like the previous times but my wound did reopen. well at least it motivated me to eat healthy and reach my training goals. all in all you got it all, your degree, doing your masters and a job that pays well and the guy you wanted..... for me im still moving forward but taking my time.... i hope i pass my 2 last subjects and just do my work exp and finally graduate.... i just hoped that you wouldve been there when i did..... but i guess i really didnt want you there cause last we spoke of graduation, none of us wanted to attend each others...... well at least the girl i liked before you, and the reason that we got together, i think might be attending mine....... well in all honesty i loved spending the good times with you and learnt so much from the bad times........ all the best and i hope you 2 make it together....

im seriously tired of thinking about you cause i cant be bothered and im Bored as hell and ive had enough ive tried everything, forgiveness, hoping you all the best, letting you win and i swear i just dont care anymore i just want you out of my mind....but i swear i cant stop listening to SAD MUSIC!!!!! PLEASE GET OUT OF MY NIND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i really hate that i miss you, knowing ill never hold you again.... the new girl that i thought would replace you is gone....i think i wasnt ready but in the end im happy your gone from my life....you screwed me over so bad...dont know why i stayed with you, only hoping the good side of you will come out. but i guess it was your bad side that took over.....i hate your guts but i forgive you...your really messed up and have no morals....i guess i was saved from you and i cant help but think i shouldve ended the relationship earlier when u told me you kissed that guy 3days of being together and told me 3 months later....then u kiss the new guy after we broke up 3 days later???? what the eff is wrong with you??? I want you to be happy but i really think your gonna end up in tears....all the best though cause i hope youve learnt, even though it doesnt look like it..

i hate everyday because i know it's either going to be a good day or a bad day.....i think about you everyday and seems that the only time i can get my mind off you is when im with this other girl....but i cant even get with her cause your still on the back on my mind....i watched a movie last night about breaking up by myself like you used to do....it was actually good to go by myself....it hurt but i was strong enough not to cry..... i hate the fact that i cant call you, email you or text you....im trying hard to forget your number...your with him now that im sure of, i really hope your happy and if you do end up marrying him i wish you the best.....i guess i just gotta do what i gotta do in life......i hate the fact that i cant talk about my day to anyone like i do with you.....really honestly like we used to do....it feels lame when i tell other people my day, at least you can with the person you have now....im messed up somedays and some days i just wanna diie cause life sucks.....i feel like giving up on my dreams cause of you, sometimes i dont care what happens to me and just wanna dump uni and just work fulltime doing a job i hate... but in the end i know im gonna be alright, ive been living my life without you before for 8 years, so i know i can live without you...i dont know why you came to my life when i was happy being single.......we went through so much together and all honesty in the beginning i was the one that wanted to leave you, but you grew on me......not in a positive way. i thought the last couple of months together we were doing alright, but i guess i didint see the other guy coming, you talked about him out of nowhere. well im tired of thinking why you left me.....i just wanna lose my weight and focus on my studies and find God again. I guess you became the most important person in my life but now i just have to let you go.....i have but i know deep inside myself i want you to call or text or email me which sucks.......ill always have the memories which sucks but i know they wont hurt or matter anymore in time.....i hate that i loved you so (her name)

i went through my email today..................i found a search button to look your name up instead of going through page by page like ive been doing when im missing you......you would actually laugh at that cause all this time i didnt know the function existed.....you would call me "loser" and you would laugh...i would say "no i'm not" and say i miss u heaps baby.......we would then talk about our day...wat bothered us and interesting stuff thats happened..but not anymore or forever will i hear your voice or words again i read through my email...and we went through a lot....im sorry for the times i mistreated you......but you are one crazy gurl..asking me to propose to you when you knew we couldve not have possibly marry at that time......you knew i wanted to marry you....if you just waited another year maybe i wouldve known for sure you were the one....but you let the other guy come in......we only saw each other 1ce a week because of the schedule of our jobs and uni ...and didnt wanna see me during the weekdays cause u said u didnt wanna stay out late...even though we couldve spent 2 hours together just talking in the car and you would be in bed by 10....in the begigning when we were both just at uni and doing casual jobs we would spend 4-6 days a week together....when u got your new job at the bank 1day was enough for you to see me.... i told you 1 week b4 we broke up "since your graduating your gonna leave me for a banker" and you told me "stop being so insecure".....but you did 1 week later no you let the other guy in....spent your whole day at work talking to him...talking about me and us....how im old fashioned....not into fashion YOU like....letting him put me down.....you said we had a connection...and now u say you and this guy have a connection..... i dont understand what was the point of giving me this laptop for my bday if u were gonna break up with me 3 months later.......or the picture you drew that meant so much to you that you gave me on our 2 year anniversarry if you were gonna end it 2 months later... you broke so many promises...i remember keeping all of mine....you asked everything of me and gave it you....tried to win you back but you sealed my efforts by kissing him on the 3rd day of ending us....seeing him 1 day after our breakup.....I knew YOU were toxic....but i guess thats the way it has to be...cause i think god knows your not good for me....u didnt believe in my dreams, passion and ideals.... well i hope your happy cause iam moving on....theres another girl in the horizon but i cannot make a move till im over you cause i dont want to risk a good thing with pains and memories of you... im not gonna get a rebound...im gonna heal and find, not another you but a gurl thats meant for me...A million times better than you....and this gurl already is....even though we're not together...shes only a good friend for now but her friendship is already a million times better on the good days ive spent with you..... i hope your happy cause i swear gurl....im getting over you....over you real fast.....im always getting better, faster and stronger.

i love this thread.... im getting better........faster, leaner and stronger...happier and more confident I pray for you everynight that your okay and god looks after you....i pray for your new boyfriend to treat you right and god's will be done for your life....i forgive you everyday for what you did.....its gotta be everyday cause im not over you just yet... all the best in your life

i dont like you being in my mind.....i want the memories not to hurt anymore....i want to forget all the memories....i want to delete you in my memory banks.....i dont ever, ever, i mean ever want to see you again......i just hope everything goes well wiith you as long as you dont contact me ever again....i thank god everyday cause you dont contact or havent contacted me!!!!

i just wished we eneded better.....you lied about the reason you broke up with me....i even said a week before we broke up "since now your graduated your gonna leave me for a banker".....she said "no im not, stop being insecure".....1 week later u were with him....you couldnt even wait a day to be with him... but i know we're not meant to be....i lost myself and and let go of my beliefs.... now im here regaining everything i lost in me and new gains that will make me better...i will take every lesson from our 2 years and bring it to my new relationship...whenever it comes....I wish you all the happiness in the world!!!!

i did NC for 1.3 months broke it to end the relationship on a good note and forgiving her..but asked not to reply..only her address so i could return her things...NC is a must if you wanna move on. Ive been broken up for 2.3months today and NC and forgiveness, exercise, soul searching, keeping myself busy, hangingout with friends and doing things youve always wanted is helping me heal in leaps and bounds. the first week is the worst, get past it with NC and it will get better. and if u do break the no contact rule get back to it again and get your friends/family to support you. think positive people youll all be okay. post in healing after breaking up and divorce.

i did tell her she thought about it few weeks later she said she wants to be just friends i didnt get as cut i thought and only time will tell if we're still gonna be friends it was good to get it out of my chest

dont give up!!! it's just a faze, since youve been thinkking too much and having too many negative thoughts heres a website that helped me link removed pls read and use its techniques, theres lots of help out there never give up and give 100 percent on everything and in meeting new peeps dont be eager just let it flow everything will be allright girl

see ur councillor they really help

if ur mom was in a abusive relationship and ur dad was not willing to change then it was right for her to divorce him my mum told me about a talk a nun gave about divorce in a abusive relationship. she said if the relationship causes the other person to turn away from god because of the abuse then it is right to divorce. since god comes first, then everything else.