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  1. 33yeargirl -- do you think its possible some girls are more expressive than others? i had a very lukewarm reaction originally, then not a week later she told me she liked me, i dont know she might be lying but i dont see why so i'm assuming she means it...yet she didnt act exstatic towards me? she just giggles alot when i talk to her but she doesnt act over the moon? diggity -- you are very right, i need to calm down and enjoy myself thanks man
  2. hey guys! haha i'm back.... ok so things are goin pretty well i guess? better than i'd hoped anyway. my only concern now is that i'm so freakin uptight! (excuse my launguage please), i mean i'm really nervous that this could stop as soon as it began, and i think its starting to show in my actions, anyone have any ideas how to calm down? (i'm also nervous becuase shes comin over sat! wow ahhaha, i need a chill pill), sorry to bother all of you with such a trifling matter but its still important i think becuase i dont want to scare her off! questions / comments would be appriciated -Darknova pS thanks again guys! you've been there for me when others havent!
  3. that sounds like eczema my friends, although only a dermatologist can tell you for sure... it can certainly be triggered by the change in weather, as well as the presense of toxins / allergins does it ich before u see the rash? then during? thats a surefire sign --darknova
  4. ok so basically what should i be thinkin right now? i've nver been so confused nor hav i ever done this this way before, it seems backwards to me...tellin someone how they feel then gettin to know them better circumstances prevented me doin it the right way it seems, ANYWAY i feel like a moron asking all of theee questions, i'm really greateful that your takin time away from ur busy schedueles to help me, i mean it without you guys i'd be totally lost comments / next step(s)? lol thanks again guys! -- Darknova
  5. ok guys update for ya all, i've been grounded we didnt manage to do anythin for a while until last saturday, i asked her if she wanted to go to a battle of the bands at my school, she said yes but it was the same night as a party at my friends house, so we went there instead and forgot about the bands lol i thought we had a good time jokin around, yesterday she said she had a good time too, and wanted to see me again soon, asked me what i was doin today, we tried to plan somethin but her mom said she couldnt have people over apparently, but that we should hang out again soon.... i'm thinkin all this is good but again i turn to everyone here... -- darknova
  6. heeey guys, got an update for ya if ya care...i talked to her and she was like "i'd love to BUT my grandparents are comin down from maine and i'm takin the ACT's, next weekend would be cool though" i dont know if thats good bad or ugly but i'm tired! lol thoughts or comments?
  7. i wont lie to either of you, i'm really nervous here and i dont want to live in false hope but i dont know i see both of you have a point... she wasnt very forward or exstatic but then again this is a girl whose never had a boyfriend before, as far as i know shes never even held anyones hand... and we're both 17 so in my own little world i'm thinkin that might have something to do with it (the only guy shes ever told she liked, hurt her vERY badly after lying to her etc, long story) basically i want to know of those circumstances would affect her in any way or whats goin on?
  8. nooo, i'm planning on callin her tomrrow afternoon / night...is that alright? i had a paper to write today and my moms not lettin me talk on the phone (HONEST she took my cell)
  9. ahhh lol now i'm nervous , lol this is gonna be difficult lol, its so rare that it actually works out anyway, its time to add to my troubles by mentioning her parents are like a billion times more strict than most, last time i tried hangin out with her, her parents told me that she cant go alone with a guy places...she needs to go with friends (asked my friend who knew her 10 years, its true) not that i dont think she has friends who mind goin with her, then kinda meltin away for a while... still it seems to me like i've picked the worst possible choice and i cant let it go...i've known her for 2 years, liked her since i've met her and i'm tired of bein fustrated...not to mention i'll be graduating in 6 months, i've felt so diffrent about her its weird...like whenever she mentions a problem its like i'd do anything to make it right if i can...this isnt fair! -- needed to vent a bit MUCH BETTER, Darknova
  10. hey guys, alright well ive really got nothin to loose right? so why not ask her out sometime...i've been givin her a little space ya know, not really callin or IMin her, although shes im'd me for the last 2 days in a row and i do talk then, but i'm lettin her initiate the conversation, i was plannin on doin that till like tomrrow, anyway, We were going to hang out this weekend, but then this happened, so would it be wrong to ask her if she still wants to? or should i give her some more time? I dont want to look like i'm desperate or a stalker but i dont want to loose her either lol, i was thinking hang out in Summit (nice town here in NJ), maybe see a movie, grab some dinner, basic stuff where we can talk...any suggestions? lol thank you all so much for your help! -- Darknova
  11. lol yea beanpaper...well it was oddd...i told her i liked her which i think she took as askin to be my girlfriend, i didnt actually ask her out on a date or anything.... we just had a really long talk where she said she wanted to get to know me better first, then eventually ended in her doin history homework... i'm still hopin that once she gets to know me better everythin will work out, but i dont want to live in false hope here...
  12. that applies to everyone ya? i mean i'm only 17 just checkin lol, I'M BEIN SO PARANOID, I CAN FEEL IT, and she did remember she had history homework to do, but long after we had gotten through the, so called meat of the conversation thanks for teh reply!
  13. hey guys, I know i've bugged you all with my problems in the past but now i think i MIGHT be gettin somewhere, and i need to figure out what to do next, and since i'm lost i've turned to my only reliable source of help...hey guys! lol ok so i told everyone here about the girl i wanted to ask out, that i've known for like 2 years...well we were talkin on aim the other night and it basically slipped out that i liked her, which i think she took as me askin her out... anyway her response was kinda ambiguous, she said "even if this doesnt work out we should be friends" then went on to say that we should stay friends for the moment, and get to know each other better and then see..i guess anyway her exact words were "consider us friends for now", then i said somethin like "ouch lol, seriously tho that sounds good" and she goes "no i'm just sayin for now" it continues...anyway we have only seen each other a few times over the last couple years so i can see why she feels like this, ya know get to know each other better, she did say iw as once of the nicest guys she ever met tho, and it was refreshing to find a guy who wasnt just lookin for A**, then she asked about my ex gf, and when i was done she was like "aww its ok, i'm not like that" soo i have a couple questions, am i bein paranoid here? is this a good thing, or am i bein let down exceedingly gently? i'm horrible at this, i want to know if there is anything i can do (becuase i'll do it, i'm soo serious about this) ... ladies especially, please help me! sincerely, Darknova
  14. hey guys! long time no talk...i'm gonna blame that one on AP classes... anyway, i've run into another question, so i'm gonna turn to you guys for help since you've been an invaluable source in the past... i think i've explained before how i met a girl at a party 2 years ago, screwed up and have been working towards another chance since then...(you can pm me, or look at my past posts for more info) anyway, over the course of the last week i've gotten her #, and asked her to see a movie next weekend via aim, now i'm gonna have to call her sometime this week and set everything up...thats fine with me (i think ) so how would u guys play it from here? we dont have as much of a relationship as you would think becuase even though i've known her for 2 years, we talk mostly on aim and almost never see each other (5 times over the last year?) becuse she lives way away from me (like 30 - 40 minutes on a good day...if any of u are from NJ, its 40 minutes on Rt22, not something u want to do!) so i'm wondering what my next steps should be? (thinkin ahead a little) any advice? anything would be greatly appriciated! the only other thing that bothers me alittle is that shes kinda an altnerative girl? like she considers herself a skater girl which is fine with me (shes not THAT into it) i dont care what other ppl are like, i care about personality, but i'm a bit worried she'll think we're not each others types right away becuase i'm not like that at all, if u look at my myspace picture you'll see that i'm mostly a prep, ya kno polo shirts, private school, the whole bit....so i guess this ones for the ladies out there, do you guys mind a guy whose diffrent than yourself? thanks! Darknova
  15. the offical reply to the "poping whitehead" question is NOOOOO...however saying that i think most ppl do it anyway, and as long as u dont make a habit of it it probAbly wont hurt you however it *can* leave scars so be aware...
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