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  1. I started dating someone in august who I’ve known since high school and I like him a lot. We’ll call him Eric. Eric says he’s always had a huge crush on me since high school and now that we’ve been dating, I’m starting to really like him a lot. He always tells me how he feels about me and wants us to be together even though we still are catching up and getting to know one another. As Eric was pouring his feelings to me, he said that he would get jealous if a guy tries to talk to me. One day, I was out with my friends and Eric was going to pick me up from the place. He FaceTimed me and told me he was outside waiting for me and as I was getting up to meet him, a guy whom we both knew from high school “Harry” recognized me and we exchanged words and laughed for a bit. I told him I had to go and it was nice seeing him. Once I get in the car, I told Eric that I saw “Harry” at the place and he immediately said “oh the one you were flirting with”. We got into a huge disagreement about it because of his jealousy but talked it out eventually. Sometimes I feel like we moved on too fast because we have gotten intimate and share very strong feelings for each other. I go on Eric’s Instagram page sometimes and notice that he follows a lot of women and likes their pictures. I’ve already pointed that out to him and told him that it would make me feel uncomfortable if he’s liking certain pictures if we end up together. I notice that he also browses Instagram to follow random women he doesn’t know even after our jealousy disagreement and likes their older pictures. He used to like my Instagram stories before we started dating, but barely likes the pictures I send him and pictures of myself on my story. I know I drive myself crazy checking his page and who pictures he’s liking recently, but something is telling me to end it if I’m feeling this way. I feel like if I can’t have a simple conversation with the opposite sex but he can just follow random women, and who knows what he does behind closed doors. He’s really sweet and takes me out, brings me medicine when I’m sick, but I just feel like sometimes that’s not enough for me and I can’t get past some of his actions. I’m not used to seeing someone I’m dating 3-4 times a week and we share that time together. My friends and family think we see each other too often. I even told him that one day I had a dream about him going after another girl and he said that he would never do that to me. How should I go on about our relationship? I really like him, but I’m very confused at the same time. I just wish it was how it used to be when we were friends.
  2. Hello, Recently I have noticed patterns of irritability and anger. I try to control it, but each time I fail. Yesterday, I lashed out at a woman at the Drivers License center because she was very rude to me. I was so upset afterwards and cried in my car because I’ve never stuck up for myself like that. Although I did that, I let it get to me the rest of the day. There’s other situations where I feel angry and I want to blow up, so I go into a quiet place to cool down and take deep breaths. I do consider myself to be communicative, but sometimes I feel like I am not heard when I express myself, which is probably why I feel angry. I have noticed that some situations in the past have made me an angry person. I didn’t always use to be this way. I was always the nice person, but I’m now the complete opposite and have a zero tolerance/patience level. My anxiety has worsen and I let the small things get to me. I want to know if anyone is going through this and if you can give me any helpful tips to control my anger? Thank you.
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