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  1. SexySadie7, I think we dream about issues we've in real life. And I think this may be your case. I had a hard time to get over a guy I got emotional involved with, although it was just sex... I dreamt about him many many times. After I decided to stop contacting him, I dreamt that I was mad at him and he tried to use me again (and in fact as soon as I stopped contact, he made a lot of hung ups!). I won't suggest you to contact him, specially if you have a hard time getting over him and because he's an unrealiable person. I'd suggest to leave your mind liberate your hear from that relationship. Time heals... it did heals me.
  2. Don't tell her that you like her. I'd follow emit_remmus' advice, is the best way to see if she's into you.
  3. I've been diagnosed with Bipolar Depression and my doc prescribed me Lithium (which begin with 300mg and went to 900mg) and Ravotril (I began with 0,5mg and ended with 1mg). I was on medicin for one year and in my case I didn't really see much different. I had my mood swings despite the medicin I was taken and the doc just increased me the medicin. But I went sometimes from mania to depression. I went to a therapist last year and she told me that she believes I've a borderline personality disorder, which is quite similar to the Bipolar Depression. I decided to leave medicin and did it in three months (very slow of course because I was on it for about one year). Without medicin I feel fine. I have my mood swings, but that much as it was with medicin. So I know that I need to put my feets on earth when I'm "too happy" to don't go down to a depression. I've to be careful with caffee and alcohol too. I also realized that contraceptive made me feel depressed, so I soon as I left it I felt better. But that just me. I'd suggest you to ask different psychiatrist about the diagnosis and the prescription. A therapy is very important too. There are different levels of Bipolar Depression too, so like my psychiatrist said I'm on a low one and maybe I can control by myself, but others need medicin. I sometimes I need some help with medicin to sleep. There are some support groups on yahoo where you maybe can find some more information and support. I hope this helps you.
  4. Thanks Rhonda for your advice. One more question please. Last year I bought the book "The Rules", would like to know if in your opinion is good to follow those rules to attract someone. If not, why and what book you wrote would you suggest me to be my guide. Thanks again. Daniela
  5. Hi Rhonda, I read that you think that is good when a women take the initiative. But I did this in the past and I got so much rejection. Have you any advice to women that want to take the initiative, but without so much failure? Another and last question. I'm 32 years old, single, no kids, pretty and nice, but can't find someone to share my life with. I don't want to have a fling, but I really would like someone who I feel big chemistry and pasion with. You said that is better to look for it, than to wait. I don't have much places to look for. I've my work, some hobbies and I'm trying to enjoy a trekking group too. But do you think that pubs, discoteques and internet are good places to look for? I'm asking about this, because I looked on those places during a long time and all I found were guys who wanted just to get laid. Thank you in advance for your advice. Cheers from Chile Daniela
  6. He acted like jerk. If he acted this way in the first date, what do you expect from him in the long road. Peopel don't change. Look for someone else.
  7. Trolloc I understand your feelings, because now I feel the same you do. The guy who I thought was into me, because he asked my number, didn't call and I feel like a fool thinking he was shy and that I had to help him. I think maybe we need more patient and wait for more green flags to act and be into someone... until then, nothing is going on...
  8. Trolloc, I've felt the SAME WAY you describe. Over and over again I got the feeling that this time it will works, that that guy is into me and... NOTHING. They weren't into me, they just wanted some fun, flirt or they were just bored. I also felt that it will be better to die, if I can't someone to love and someone who love me back... Right now someone is into me, but I tried to don't imagine things that maybe won't happen... but it's hard, because I think that is really normal to want someone to love and feel loved by them too. But there's always the risk of getting hurt. But I also think that from bad experiences you can learn what you did wront and maybe to look for another type of person. And if you see some red flags from a possible partner you always can stop seeing that person. Like you I also liked guys who were warm and cold at the same time. They liked to play games. And me too! But I always got so hurt. Now I get away of people like that. I hope this helps you.
  9. I agree with Sarah. We want what is difficult to get. We are imperfect so or we are too nice or too cold. I think the best is to be in the middle. To be someone who respect ourselves and give others what we won't regret to lose and be a litte mysterious. I used to be too nice and give too much. I used to regret about how much I gave with no gratitude from the other person. Now I take little steps, first trying to know the person very well, before I give anything from me.
  10. fireserpant, I can relate to what happened to you too. I have a large experiences meetings guys after chatting with them. First, when all this was new for me, I was too nave, so I met a lot of weirdos. After meeting them, I found out their lies. Of course I used to feel like a fool and used. But now I conclude that the problem of liers are from them. We just have to be more careful, but there are always some liers and sometimes it's not easy to catch them. Even meeting people in reality, they also lie. I got sick with internet, using this as a tool to meet someone. So I quit and don't look there anymore. But that's just the way I feel about that and my experiences. In the other hand, my brother met his girlfriend from 3 years on internet... luck or what? I don't know.
  11. Gracelove, I don't have the right words for you maybe, because I haven't been through a rape. But I know what is depression, I've been living with it all my life. I also know the feelings about death... I've been there. I know a woman that had been going through what you're living right now. She got over it, but lived in hell for many years. She has a ministry now, specially for those like you. She just encourage people that are suffering to get over it with what makes her strong enough to live happy. Her ministry is based on God's word. I don't want to force you to believe in him if you don't. Just want to let you know that there's hope. If you want to take a look for her page this is: link removed I emailed her once about another stuff and she sent me a book for free. Maybe you could try the same. I hope I could help you somehow. And any time you want you can send me a private message. Daniela
  12. It seems to me that you have Panic Attacks... if I'm right, for this psychiatrist gives medicin and also they send you to a therapist. I know this because I've Bipolar Depression and have to take medicin (but I haven't go to a therapist yet). I have searched information about it on the web and read information about Panicks Attacks. I had also acquaintances that had this problem and had to take medicin for some period. This worked for them very well. I would suggest you to go to another psychiatrist. Sometimes is not easy to find a good one. Try to find someone you feel comfortable to be with, so you can talk about your stuff. Going through the divorce of our parents it's not an easy issue.. Any time you want to talk to me, you can send me a private message Daniela
  13. If she said she likes you and kissed you, although she was drunk, I'd suggest to be around her, treat her nice and be little misterious. We love that. See what she does, her behaviour toward you. If she flirts with you or something like that. Then I'd recomend you to invite her out. If she said no, move one. Next!
  14. I can speak from my brother... he's like you. For him one night stand is meaningless. He also consider porn without any sense. He prefers to have sex with love. I've also watched guys that have casual sex just to avoid some kind of pain or other issues, like using drogs or alcohol. And don't feel weird, there are more like you. I feel sometimes weirdo too, because now women also feel free to have one night stand, and they enjoy it. I tried, but I felt empty and craving for love. I really had bad time after that. That's why now if I have to choose a guy to be my boyfriend, I'd choose a guy like you. I drop the others.
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