boron

hey if the fact u r going away... is whats making her want to stick to friends, then she may actually be scared to allow her self to think she wants more. if u r close to her then u can be honest with her and tell her what u really think of her (i did that and got rejected by a close friend, but i get on just as well if not better now i have told her) once she knows your true feelings she may come out of her shell... and if she doesnt well have things really changed for the worst? they would just be the same

hey people basically my story is i have known this lass at my college for about a year and a half now, we are both the same age 17. i have become very close to her, and i also believe she feels close to me.... not so long ago she told me she trusts me more than any one else. i started to fall for her about 5-6 months ago...... and it got to the point 3 months ago... when i thought i would tell her, which i did and basically she told me she doesnt like me in that way (but it has to be said in a very kind fashion) afterwards she did show concern for hurting my feelings. at the moment i still feel the same way... and actually care about her more and so desperately want to be with her. at times i feel so close to her.... and a number of people have comented, they think we should go out. someone i know made it clear she always talks to me face to face and always seems happy... and upbeat when around me, they believe she may just be scared... of getting hurt ect. i find it hard to believe she may like me. i still feel the same... and dont know if i can stop feeling this way! if any one can help... i wud be ever so greatful? after i told her we got on just as well if not better, is there a chance she feels the same.. but scared to admit it?