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  1. So it’s been almost 3 years since my ex and I split. I’ve grown so much as an individual been dating, advancing my career, hitting the gym, being more involved with my kids. Overall just being a better man. My ex sees this and comes to me literally once a month telling me she wants the family back. She misses me, Us. She’s in a on/off relationship with the same dude she left me for. Everytime they have problems she tries running to me. I’ve explained that I will not be her rebound and I am not just a option. She tells me that she’s been dating her boss and tried to come to for emotional support which I explained was not going to happen either. I’ve explained that I’m not opposed to working on things but she needs to prove herself to me as I refuse to support her the way I did before. She has been struggling in life she’s in school for nursing but failed the test to enter the actual program and switched majors. She always comes to me with this “if it’s meant to be it will be” blah blah. Everytime she says she’s single her social media says everything but that. Most of the time her relationship status is hidden but her BF’s says in a relationship with her. She recently came to me saying she’s scared of his reaction, and he’s obsessing, she doesn’t know how to make him stop contacting her which I believe is lies because she had a big dinner for my son but did not invite me so most likely he was there because we threw our daughter a cohosted party earlier this year. After planning to go half on gifts for months just to have her reneg and get herself and my son a phone. Whats up with these games? I’m very clear with her that I am not going to be treated as an option or a emotional crutch, I will not be apart of the pogo to pogo monkey branching. What is her angle? I’m no longer at a point where I want her like that. As I’ve said before she has to prove herself to me and I feel she doesn’t want to do that she would rather take the easy route
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