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  1. 3 months ago. He lives in another city for his uni. We meet whenever he is home on his semester break
  2. Last we had a conversation was 2 weeks ago when he texted me to ask if I got my visa yet. That was when he asked to meet him before leaving. And he even told me things like don’t go..you could find a job here. He was even joking about finding him an English wife in the UK, literally no whiff of him being in a relationship. Apart from that, he texted 3 or 4 days ago asking if I wanted to join him to play but I declined as I was busy. I understand a video game might seem juvenile to you lot but it is our platform where we mostly converse and play till almost 3 in the morning. It’s more like a phone call where you also play a game in addition. And yes you are right, I did want his attention as I wanted to follow up about the hangout before I leave. So I started the conversation with, “hey I thought someone was supposed to treat me? And he replied “you got your visa?”, that is when I joked that yeah I’m leaving tonight and he said “why wouldn’t you meet me before leaving?”. He asked a load of other questions like when is the flight? Who will receive you in the UK? Will you be travelling completely alone? Just like any other friend would.
  3. What do you mean friendzoned a guy? It never got that far for us to be in a relationship. We were literally just friends and hung out as friends. and friends do play pranks on each other. We are always joking and always playing pranks. It isn’t anything new and he wasn’t mad on a serious note. He just really thought that I left and wanted to know why I didn’t meet before leaving. That’s all. We laughed it off. He was completely normal and talked like we used to. I even asked him what did I do to get blocked and he told me it wasn’t me.
  4. But he was completely normal when we talked last night. He wasn’t mad at all. I didn’t play, it was just a joke. We are always joking with each other.
  5. We know each other through a mutual friend at a hangout. He is 23. And no we are not in relationships. He was fine when we talked last night. We made plans to meet in a few days. He is not the kind to get mad at pranks. It was a joke and we did laugh it off. He was completely normal. and when I asked him why he blocked, he told me it’s not anything that I did. And I don’t understand why you have to be so mean here. We are all sharing in this forum because we are hurt and are suffering mentally. If you are answering on someone’s post, least you can do is be kind.
  6. I’ve been friends with this guy for over a year now. There were times when things moved a little bit on to the romantic side which our friends noticed and even used to tease us together. But after the pandemic when everyone moved on with their lives, we didn’t used to talk as much anymore. But we always did keep in touch and even hung out a couple of times. If not anything else, I thought he was a genuine friend as we were always updated with what’s going on with our lives. This one time when I was mad at him and thought of cutting off contact with him, he messaged me repeatedly and made it clear that he cares about me and didn’t want to lose me. Recently I’ve got an offer letter from a university in the UK for my master’s so I will be moving there in a couple of days. When I told him, he repeatedly asked to meet him once before I leave. He said he will treat me. Last night, I texted him playing a prank that I’m leaving in a couple of hours and this is goodbye. And he was mad that why didn’t I meet even after he asked me to. He said “didn’t I ask you to meet once before you go? This is not right!” and then I told him I was joking and then we made plans to meet and he was talking to me about sending him gifts from the UK. But then the next night he just blocked me out of nowhere. From each and every social media..even Instagram where we don’t even follow each other. I texted him in a game we play asking why he did that and he told me that it wasn’t him, it’s a girl he gave his password to. Apparently she asked him to unfriend all girls because he asked her to do the same. But I checked his profile and it was just me who he blocked. I just feel like he is lying to me because why would he even block on WhatsApp. You can’t share the password to your WhatsApp. His last message was I know this is weird but it wasn’t intentional. It’s a long story I ll tell you some day. I just don’t understand what happened…I thought he was a genuine friend. Why would he even make plans with me if he was going to block the next day?
  7. I did meet him..which is why the attachment is more. During the conference, I hung out with him 3 days in a row..morning till midnight. It’s ever since then I can’t stop thinking about him.
  8. Im sorry for this being so long and maybe even a bit immature but I really needed to let all of it out as I have been struggling a lot with my mental sanity for the past few days. So I request everyone to please bear with this one and give it a read. I have been talking to this guy since a year now. It was the four of us actually in the beginning, playing video games all night. They were what got me through the lockdown.However, it was this one guy I was closer with than the rest, talking on the phone late night, hanging out. He was even the one I used to fight with the most. Petty arguments and then making up-to each other. And then it happened.. I got attached to him. Even though the other two got busy with their lives once the lockdown was over, he was always there. I felt like we had a connection. He told me he cared about me. But a huge red flag about him is that he is very egoistic and that too about petty things like seen zoning and calling two days in a row. Even though he wanted to talk on the phone, he would say things like we shouldn't talk so much, I don't want to get attached bla bla. But then if I told him bye, he would be like oh so you'll sleep? And if it was me making the first move, he would ask 1000 why's. I even caught him in a conversation where his friend was teasing him about me having a crush on him, so I was always careful. And he even trashed a previous girl that asked him out, said he cut off contact with her after that, so I was always scared of making too many first moves. He is so confusing, he takes a step forward and again takes two steps back. Anyway, after the lockdown he moved to another city for university, the same city I had to move to 2 months back for an internship. When I told him, he was urging me to live in his neighbourhood and told me he himself will find me a place to stay. He made plans to hangout. After I moved there, we were playing video games one night and he invited this new girl whom I don't know. He told me it's his school friend and ever since I see him obsessed with her. I felt so ignored and left out because even though he would ask if I wanted to play, after I told him one day to call me once he logs in the game, he forgot. I log in and see that he is playing with that other girl. He just completely forgot about me… So I yelled at him and started playing with another guy. He tried calling and texting and I told him I don't want to play with him. Then when he saw me playing with the other guy, he was like "you told me you won't play but I see you playing with him, great". I told him that he did the same. Anyway I have been ignoring him after that and he didn't try much either after that, although I got to know from his friend that he asked him to invite me to the game. After a couple of days he texts me to ask about a conference at his university that I'm supposed to go to. I told him the date and then since it was the weekend the next day, I asked him if he wanted to hangout in my neighbourhood. But he was instead asking me to go to his area even though I was new in the city and didn't know my way around. I got mad at him and started ignoring again. He didn't push much about hanging out but had been texting everyday after that about the conference. On the day of the conference, he texted at 8 am asking when I would be there. I yelled at him about his on and off *** and he told me he was sick so he couldn't meet me during the weekend. So why couldn't he just tell me that? I still decided to meet him at the conference and he was with me the entire time for 3 days, and we even hung out from morning till midnight. Those were some of the best days of my life. But after that the on again off again *** started all over again. Not acknowledging each other in the game. When I confronted him, he told me "why won't I show ego after the things you did?" i deactivated my account after that and he texted me on WhatsApp asking if I blocked him. I even unfriended him in the game. Things have been going on like this…he texts every other day and replies to my stories asking if I'm in his city or if I moved back home? He repeatedly asks why I unfriended him in the game even though he knows the freaking reason. He apologised to me and told me let’s play from now..but what he doesn’t get is I won’t play as long as he is playing with that girl. I felt humiliated when he forgot about me. Why couldn’t he put his ego aside and invite me again, why did he have to ask his friend to do it? Yesterday we had another confrontation where I accused him of not even fixing things after I was mad at him, and he told me that he apologised and that if he didn't want to fix things, he wouldn't have apologised. But that isn't enough for me! He told me he doesn’t know how else to fix this. I taunt him how he ditched me when he found that new girl but he never even acknowledges her, pretends he doesn't know what I'm talking about...he even told me that I'm his closest friend and he doesn't wanna lose me, but then he doesn't even try to fix us. Before he would repeatedly apologise to me unless I talk to him. He doesn't do that anymore. He just ends the argument with "okay my mistake I don't wanna argue anymore" Im just so so sick of this, all our other friends in the game even takes his side and they all accepted the new girl. I just feel so left out. I mean how do you after playing with someone for an entire year just instantly start playing with a new girl? I tried to let him go..but can't bring myself to unfriend him for good. I don't know what to do…this is costing me my mental peace.
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