The changes in general were doing a better job of planning for a future together, being more emotionally available, prioritizing her and overall just being more confident in myself.
it wasn’t one specific thing, it was honestly somewhat vague. I think the advice to not move quickly with the new girl is great, and I think it ultimately stems from not knowing where I’m at with the old girl.
My fear is that I try to improve myself only to then find out she’s dating someone new anyway. I don’t want to lose her but I feel like my current situation with us talking but not really being together isn’t good for my mental health. It doesn’t let me move forward and it makes me wonder if we will get back together or not