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Afireblue

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  1. I felt like we were getting to know each other and I thought either he or I would suggest to meet after exchanging numbers, but I have blocked him and moved on now, I was a little shaken this morning. I will never get used to this tho, online dating is weird
  2. Thank you!! I like that suggestion on meeting within the fist week of chatting!
  3. Thanks Andrina, you are completely right, this was my gut feeling. I belong to hiking and activity groups in my area and have made new friends!! 🙂
  4. So true! I tent to give people the benefit of the doubt. I will stop lol
  5. I decided to give online dating one more chance I am a textbook over-thinker, so thank you for being patient with me ❤️ I have been chatting with his guy who is 5 years older than me, for about 2 weeks online. We seemed to get along fine. We exchanged numbers 2 days ago and on our first text exchange in Whatsapp, which was very casual, we said good morning, how are you, etc. I had a funny story to share with him so I said I was tired, as I had gone to a night club unexpectedly the night before. (I have not been to a night club in more than 10 years, so that was funny to me). He blocked me in the middle of our text exchange. His photo was gone and my messages could not get through. I thought it was weird and my mind started spinning, because that's what I do... I felt rejected or judged, I didn't know how to feel. Anyway, I deleted him from my online dating contacts and deleted his number from my phone. 2 days later, aka, this morning, he texted me, good morning how are you, on Whatsapp. I could see his picture again, which meant that he unblocked me. I have not replied. In his message he also asks why I removed my profile photo (he cannot see it because he is not in my contacts) Anyway, I know this stuff happens and it is not important, but I we are both in our 40s, we are not in highschool, but to someone like me who suffers anxiety, these type of things do affect me, unfortunately Should I reply? I kind of want to just to reject him lol! ,
  6. I do not want to reconcile, If he had have said good morning, how are you ? I might have responded, but he sent a photo of what used to be "our beach" with no text to follow, and that threw me off. Because in all our previous conversations he was always polite, never insinuated anything ans was never inappropriate.
  7. This is so true. Thank you! I love posting my pains here because you are all so on the money, I do listen to the advise I receive. Many times it echoes my own thoughts that I second guess all the time. There was no good reason for lying to me, he came clean and was honest, and I appreciated that, but it didnt make me feel better. I still have some feelings for him but I dont feel the need to hear from him or to talk to him anymore. Should I just block him or tell him there is no friendship here??
  8. Well, thank you for your input, I know that I should have blocked him. He had been inviting me on hikes but not alone, with a group of mutual acquaintances, however, I always made excuses. I broke up with him because I found out he was lying to me. I knew that I shouldnt have accepted to be friends as I was still hurt. But my other friends are friendly with their exes all the time and hang out, but I have never been able to do that. I wanted to "act like a grownup" in a way.
  9. Hello! I had a random contact from my latest ex... We "tried" to stay friends on his request, but I couldnt do it because I still had feelings for him. So I would reply to his texts but I never initiated and one day the messages stopped coming for 1 month. Today randomly he sent me a photo of a place we used to visit for dates, it was like "our place". Why do people do this? is it ego? loneliness? is he getting of probably knowing that this will get my attention?. Any opinions?
  10. Seriously in love with Donny Hathaway's voice right now!
  11. The House of the Spirits in Spanish by Isabel Allende I love the historical fiction genre as well as magic surrealism.. this book has it all
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