Jump to content

LDJ

Members
  • Posts

    61
  • Joined

LDJ's Achievements

Contributor

Contributor (5/14)

  • First Post
  • Collaborator
  • Week One Done
  • One Month Later
  • One Year In

Recent Badges

18

Reputation

  1. This sounds like a clash of values to me, and it also sounds like you are trying to rationalize the incompatibility rather than acknowledge that it is a big deal to you and therefore a deal breaker. From my experience, if you communicate your boundary on this, most guys will just go underground with their viewing habits, they don't share your value so they don't see it as something they should have to stop doing. You will hear from all corners that his is what most men are like, that its not cheating so don't make a big deal out of it, etc. But none of this is going to make you feel very good about being in a relationship with a guy who doesn't share you values on this as being disrespectful. Ask yourself, will you come to feel he disrespects you and women in general? How will that impact the health of our relationship down the road? Will resentments grow? Trust ? Will it affect the sexual well being of your relationship? These are high intensity impacts for a relationship to endure in the long run.
×
×
  • Create New...