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I do trust him I think it just tugs at my insecurities and I rather he do it completely privately. I don't think it's nessacary as I said to have it all out in the open. Yes people view porn. Yes people have fantasies.. Yes it's normal. But it's just something I'm cool with not being right in my face!!! Keeping your porn under wraps is not keeping secrets to me it's just normal. I view porn.. On my ingonito browser page. I don't keep. That stuff on my social media and I know my partner wouldn't like it if I did. I guess I do feel disrespected in a way but at the end of the day I try to push these feelings aside bc like I said I do trust him and I want to be realistic.

I have to agree it does come down to a clash of values and you may be happier to seek out other men who don't publicly follow models and porn stars. My partner does this and the first few years we were dating I didn't really care or notice but it has become a problem for me and makes me feel an array of emotion. Some of them are my own insecurities sure but I wish he would be more discreet with looking at women...go on their page look and delete the history! Why must you follow them etc. It is a bit much and as you say most men would be put off by their girlfriend following pages of naked men