Bobbyclobby

She told me as she asked me if I had ever cheated. Our relationship is OK, I like her a lot. I don't see much of her kids but when I do their behaviour is horrific.

Almost 2 years into a relationship with a woman. She told me early on she had had a threesome (ffm). Which at the time I was a bit shocked but I'm OK with now, none of my business really. However at the weekend I discovered she was married when this happened. And not to the male involved. I don't know if I'm overreacting but this to me is cheating way beyond cheating. I try to avoid dating cheaters.

Thank you. I do have kids of my own but they are older, 28 and 24.

They split up when the youngest was 10 months old. The dad is in his life. We know he's actually told them "don't get to attached to him, he won't be round for long"

Dad is in his life. They went through a bad break up...violence, restraining orders, all sorts. He goes there every other weekend

She doesn't really say much. She was with someone a while ago and he ended it because of her kids. The only reason I met them early was because I helped her with an emergency at her house which was unavoidable. Since then we've met a few times.

I wouldn't say telling him I'll inflate his bike tyres before he goes out on it is disciplining and 24 weeks is 6 months. Not nit picking, only saying. As I said I'll take a step back from involvement with the kids.

Hi. So I'm 8 months in and now in a relationship with a beautiful woman 4 years my junior - I'm 54. All was going well and I've met the kids a few times. She has 3...21 years, 11 and 8. The 21 year old seemed to like me at first however I've done a few things to help her out and received no thanks. The 8 year old is no problem at all. The 11 year old, however, seems to really dislike me. He's rude to me, doesn't listen to anything I say and his behaviour deteriorates every time I see him. There are no pleasant interactions between us. And I swear this is not on my part. Is there any future in this or should I call it a day. I am in love with my partner but I don't want to be in her sons life if he dislikes me. And for my own sanity I don't want him trying to destroy our relationship for however long. I could take a step back from the kids and simply concentrate on "us". However I've been alone for so many years I would like to settle down with her. But is that possible? For example if we had a place together the lions share of any money would be mine and I would resent this eventually with him being how he is.