Now I know I’m going to get some (a lot of hate) for this, but I need some advice.
I don’t even know where to start…….. so I’ve been in my current job for almost 5 years, about two years ago I met this guy who works here too, he’s been here a lot longer than me but worked on a different part of the site.
anyway, so we worked together for a few months and became work friends, then at one point he said he liked me, was I interested ect. I said no and stuck by that as he has a partner. More time passes and things changed we started seeing each other.
now it’s been a couple of years, we’ve done the ‘couple’ things ect, I did try and end things a few times because of the situation and was reassured that he was going to end it with his partner but it was hard because of the kids.
someone gave her the heads up that something was going on but he denied it and things settled down, (we were still seeing each other but obviously it’s not as easy and he’s being watched closely. He’s tried to end it, I’ve tried to end it but it lasts an hour if that as we can’t stay away from each other. We still work together everyday, he can’t leave (or wont) I definitely wont leave and I can’t be moved.
what do I do? How can I end this when I really don’t want to? He obviously can’t either. It’s more difficult now as he’s being watched (rightly so) I know I sound like a bad person, I am but I never meant for this to happen.