only been talking for a month. somehow the subject of kids came up. if it matters, shes 22, im 32. she wants kids, i do not.
we never know our future, anything can happen. but i cannot promise her i will want kids some day. so she knows she has to make a decision. ive tried to talk to her about it, but i dont think she likes that i bring it up. she asks why do i remind her.
i feel like i need her to decide before she develops any feelings. but i cant force her, or make the decision for her. im not expecting, or asking her to give up having children to be with me. were only a month in, we barely know each other.
i dont want to invest in someone who might leave me in the future because i dont want kids.
what do i do? do i continue on and give her how long to decide? should i just walk away without a second thought? its only been a month, and i know its normal, but she seems genuinely great. i dont want to stop seeing her. but i dont want either of us to get hurt
sorry this may be obvious, but this is new for me. we may have no option at a future. but i feel better asking for advice just to be sure
