This is about someone who used to be my best friend up until a couple of years ago.
Background. We had met at the workplace and we were best friends for 5-6 years. She was always a bit high maintenance and stubborn but she was also very supportive and we had good fun together. Two years ago, after a misunderstanding, she decided she didn't want to be friends with me - there was no fight or anything, she had just told me she felt like she couldn't count on me and let's just see each other at work. I did try to change her mind but she wouldn't budge an inch. During these past 2 years, we were fine at work but no phonecalls or hanging out together; we just met at work and, occasionally, at other friends' homes and we talked to each other about general stuff but nothing about our personal lives. You get the picture.
So, the other day, at work, she comes up to me and says that if I don't have any plans for Sunday morning ''let's go get a cup of coffee''. She caught me off guard and I said I haven't planned anything and we agreed we'll talk on the phone and if the weather is good (plenty of rain lately and she has a bad back), we'll meet.
I've been thinking about it and it's hard to decide. I mean, I know she has a good heart and I owe her a lot (she had stood by me during a very hard time) but I can't get over the fact that she had stopped being my friend for nothing and she acts like nothing happened. On the other hand, perhaps she plans on talking to me about that incident when we meet, I don't know. But it's not like the misunderstanding happened 2 months ago. Two years is a very long time.
I just don't know what to do and I'd like to know what you think about all this.