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Eliza50

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  1. I didn't meet her. She texted me suggesting a place and I replied saying I don't feel very well and won't go out today but if she has something serious she wants to talk about, she can call me. I had thought she might have wanted to say she's sorry about what happened but nope. She said no, it was nothing important, she just wanted to catch up and we talked a bit more about work and that was that. As if nothing had happened. I felt like she didn't feel she had ever done anything wrong. Stupid of me to expect an apology, she's so stubborn she would never say she's sorry, anyway.
  2. That is why I was so hurt by all that. Because she had made me feel like she didn't know me at all. She wouldn't even give me the benefit of the doubt, as you said, and that, coming from a close friend, is very hurtful.
  3. Yes. She had a doctor appointment and she had asked me to meet for dinner when it was over as the doctor's office was in my neighbourhood. I had said ok but the night before, something else came up (not something major but I figured we meet 2-3 times a week, so, it won't be a big deal if I cancel). I told her the next morning, at work, something like 10 hours before the meeting time, that I wouldn't be able to make it and she insisted that she had told me that I would pick her up from the doctor because he would put some medicine in her eye and she wouldn't be able to see very well. I didn't (and still don't) remember that detail. So, I told her I'm sorry, I never heard you say that or I wouldn't have arranged the other thing; I'll cancel it and come pick you up and we'll go for dinner. She said no, it's ok, I'll get someone else to come...and from that moment on, she started being distant until she told me what I said in my first post.
  4. This is about someone who used to be my best friend up until a couple of years ago. Background. We had met at the workplace and we were best friends for 5-6 years. She was always a bit high maintenance and stubborn but she was also very supportive and we had good fun together. Two years ago, after a misunderstanding, she decided she didn't want to be friends with me - there was no fight or anything, she had just told me she felt like she couldn't count on me and let's just see each other at work. I did try to change her mind but she wouldn't budge an inch. During these past 2 years, we were fine at work but no phonecalls or hanging out together; we just met at work and, occasionally, at other friends' homes and we talked to each other about general stuff but nothing about our personal lives. You get the picture. So, the other day, at work, she comes up to me and says that if I don't have any plans for Sunday morning ''let's go get a cup of coffee''. She caught me off guard and I said I haven't planned anything and we agreed we'll talk on the phone and if the weather is good (plenty of rain lately and she has a bad back), we'll meet. I've been thinking about it and it's hard to decide. I mean, I know she has a good heart and I owe her a lot (she had stood by me during a very hard time) but I can't get over the fact that she had stopped being my friend for nothing and she acts like nothing happened. On the other hand, perhaps she plans on talking to me about that incident when we meet, I don't know. But it's not like the misunderstanding happened 2 months ago. Two years is a very long time. I just don't know what to do and I'd like to know what you think about all this.
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