ASGM13

hey bro, i think you should do what your heart tells you to do. you should talk to her one day and just tell her how you feel. tell her that you like her, but dont expect to get an anwser back cause girls are confusing. tell her you have feelings for her and that you just thought that she should know. i know this is hard because ive been in the same situation, but you just have to suck it up and deal with it.

But there is a problem with that because she has been with her boyfriend for around four years. And if I did something bold like that and i didnt get what i wanted then our friendship wouldnt be the same and i dont want to not be her friend.

So i have hooked up with this girl a couple of times and we have talk about how we feel about each other. We both like each other but there is a problem, she currently has a boyfriend. Now i have serious thought about what i should do and i think i should stop going down a road that doesn't lead anywhere. But the thing is, is that whenever i am around here i get so weak because she start flirting with me and i just do it back. I know she likes me the way i like her but the thing is i dont think that she is going to break up with her boyfriend. I try to back off but she just pulls me right back in. I care for this girl so much but what can I do? My mind says to stop messing around with her but my heart wont let me. I need help.