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  1. sk8er_gal
    hi, I'm a bisexual female, and I have been having trouble with my stepdad. He doesnt accept me, he tells me to my face that lesbians and gays etc are trippers and that they disguist him. It makes me so sad, and depressed, it makes me feel as if im not worth anything and that Im a mistake. That i should be "normal". But i do not think this way normally.. its like he brain washes me, like he makes my self esteem just disappear. I know being bi is normal.. but when he says things like this 2 hurt me it changes the way i feel about myself. can u please help me. what should I do..
  2. sk8er_gal
    ive been in the same sito. and what i did was: wrote my friend who was also a girl an email explaining myself and explainging that i liked her more tha friends, and i also said if u feel the same then tell me but if not i can move on and just be friends with you but i just have to know. It worked out pretty good, she took it well and even though she didnt feel the same (my bad luck) she accepted it and now we're better friends for it than before and i have moved on. But in ur case thinsg may be different she may like you and even better - u will move forward and become more!!! either way is a good outcome, depending on the person of course and if she doesnt accept u liking her and telling her then shes not someone you would want in ur life anyway goodluck
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    what is a trisexual?? does anyone know.
  4. sk8er_gal
    Hey, it sounds like she's confused about what she wants. She mighthave lied about kissing other guys becouse she didnt want u to know aka didnt want to loose you, she may still like you but is just being a free girl and had sum fun. It doesnt change how she may feel about you.. it doesnt matter if she got with 100 guys, maybe u should talk 2 her about your relationship when ur on the holiday alone. goodluck..
  5. sk8er_gal
    I would do what the previous people told u to do for sure! those answers were sus about him not being able to work his scanner etc. and maybe he has photos of his son or grandson etc and is just using them all. its so easy to lie online, i could pretend to be mariyln monroe if i wanted and just use heaps of her pictures if u get my drift. Its so easy to say i love u online and feel love for sumone online.. but reality check since when do we love someone in just a short time? without even meeting or kissing feeling the chemistry.. but its alrite to hae a bit of fun just be careful.
  6. sk8er_gal
    What are some original romantic ideas for a first date? like where should i take my (girl) date and what can we do etc and when should i make a move to kiss?
  7. sk8er_gal
    hey! firstly is she bi or les.. im persuming ur a girl>>? cause ur in the bi les gay section.
  8. sk8er_gal
    I reckon you should say sorry, if you miss him you obviously like him more than u think.. maybe buy him a gift and make up for v-day.. take him 2 sum place where u can both be alone with candles or sumthing nice. It kinda sounds like you need to accept yourself. coming out really isnt bad at all and afterwards you feel relieved and like you can be yourself. I am a lesbian so i came out wen i was 16.. but i know when ur not ready ur not ready fullstop. so noone can pressure u.. its up to you. goodluck
  9. sk8er_gal
    tell her how you feel in a letter, and do it fast. If she's leaving then this is your last chance. Maybe you could start with asking for her fone number or email address.. say it is for a friend if your really too shy. if shes not interested the worst that can happen is she'll be flattered and she would prbably think "how sweet of him". I'm a girl so i know how we girls think hehe.
  10. sk8er_gal
    hey. maybe you should keep away from this person and when people are around act nice and just keep to yourself this way the person can't hurt you by copying interests or compete with you. Who needs friends like this.. people will understand if you dont want to talk to the person or associate with them.. becouse not all people can get along.. i dont get along with my stepdad - he is often jeolous of me, and does things and says things to hurt me (not physically) but mentally.. becouse he cant handle that i mite become better than him or live a better life than him. I ignore him completely and when he snarls and says put downs or nasty remarks when were alone or watever i just pretend i didnt hear him and he isnt there.. i think it hurts them back and it helps with blocking them out of ur life.. u deserve to be happy just like anyone else does. noone needs nastiness. hope this made sense to ur sito...
  11. sk8er_gal
    there's this girl i have been talking to for about 2 weeks now, i like her romantically and she says i'm hot and said in a text msg that she likes me as well. I sent her a vday card and she text msgd me back saying how gorgeous it was and how we will deff do sumthing soon. the problem is one of her friends said she still sees her ex.. like "messes" around with him still and they went to the movies 2gether 2day. The girl i like said friday she was busy working all weekend but then she said yesterday that she went surfing etc on sunday all day.. my question is does it sound like she would be open to a relationship with me? or is she still hung on her ex.. and why would she lie about working.???
  12. sk8er_gal
    hey. i feel the same way, i go out with girls and when it comes 2 guys id rather kiss and hug them but nothing more.. I consider myself bisexual, i dont need to really "find" myself its just me. i know alot of girls who are bi and prefer girls over guys. labels shouldnt really be used and they don't have a distinct meaning. well thats what i believe. hope i helped.
  13. sk8er_gal
    What she did is kinda illegal in most states, talk to her and tell her you aren't ready to take on such a big responsibility. This is very serious and will only get worse .. you should talk to a trusted teacher or doctor/counsellor about this.
  14. sk8er_gal
    Hey. I'm seeing this girl and i am kinda shy, when we are together i cant think of what to talk about or say. She's loud and outspoken and i am usual like that as well, but i'm shy when it comes to first meeting someone and dating etc, can you please help me?? i just got dumped becouse i didnt talk much at the start of a relationship and i dont want it 2 happen again.
  15. sk8er_gal
    You could try flirting with her, and see what she does, or get drunk and kiss her or get close 2 her and if it turns bad just blame the alcohol haha, but seriously just go for it i told my bestfriend i liked her and nothing has changed.. she knows and we still do everything 2gether.. but she doesnt like me back so now i know and can move on. It will depend on ur friend on how she takes it.
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